Hello there,
Here's what I am going to say about this topic. Hope you find
some insights in this issue.
What I think is, you can always have a girlfriend who is
non-christian, but along the way in the relationship... you can
introduce God in to her life thru your life testimonies, and
introduce church to her, and bring her to church, but all these
only good if your girlfriend who's a non-christian is ready to go
that step, and have opened her heart to receive christ.
Don't misunderstand the bible, when it says it is better to have
a christian life partner.
If you can find a girl who's a christian, then lucky you. But
the fact now is that alot of guys and girls can't get someone who
is from their own church, and sometimes the person that attracts us
isn't a christian at all. Then what are you going to do about
it?
Bible and church did teach us about holy matrimony, being one in
the Lord's house. But you don't have to start of with getting one
when it is almost impossible. Just take a wider perspective and see
it as a result of you and your future wife, at a dating stage,
anyone is fine, just bear in mind that Muslims and Christians
combination is really a tough cookie, and not advisable.
Christian and catholic combination? Different points of views
from both parties.It will be tough to be able to convert,especially
those with strong family traditions of a religion.Nevertheless,it's
worth a shot. 1/3 of Sgs are buddhist,18.3% christians,17%
non-religion.Assuming all are chinese,18.3/68.6(100%)=27% chance of
meeting a christian date unknowingly.Of course,this occurence
increases higher if you go to church.
My tips are:Perhaps if you hold on to your faith
strongly,you could switch churches.It may be a calling to find
the right one after a spiritual venture through the different
churches.If you are out of hopes,move on to another church.