Life is very
unpredictable
You will not know what is going to happen or what you have now will
be with you in the future. What matters most is to be happy now,
even if you're alone.
Being alone may not be a bad thing. At least for me now, I know
that it's not easy to find true love and also to have the kind of
respect and love from my other half.
Why settle with someone whom you don't love but just to have
someone in your life? Keep searching. Heaven will provide only the
best for you!
At least I know that I have my family and true and close friends.
That matters too! If you have found your true love,
congratulations! You're really blessed. But it doesn't stop there.
You have to continue to maintain it and make the love grow. True
love will never end.
Sometimes...
Sometimes in your life you might feel lonely. It's that time when
you are all by yourself thinking for once in your life that you
want to have someone to share your life with.
Sometimes you wonder what life would be like to have that special
someone again. And sometimes you wonder whether if ever you will
find the right person.
But what is right and and what is wrong you wonder.
How can you tell when you have met that person? How do you know
that it will last? How can you tell that he or she will not
change?
Sometimes when you met that someone, he will change as time goes
by. Everyone changes you say. But if that somebody is really that
someone you have been looking for, one thing should never change
and that is his or her love for you.
You have heard of the famous saying "Through thick and thin" but
most couples could not survive that period.
You have heard "Love conquers everything" Does it really? In search
of love you sometimes get confused between infactuation and true
love.
Infactuation is the thing that will not survive "thick and thin"
and neither will it "conquers everything". How then you asked
yourself, can you tell the difference.
Ask yourself, did this someone stick to you no matter what how many
of your bad sides have you shown to him or her. Can you call this
someone and ask for help or favour and he or she and you will not
fear "no" as an answer. Can you rely on this someone no matter what
state is he or she in, be it angry or sad, happy or
dissapointed.
He or she is always willing to hear your problems. Can you look
into this someone's eyes and you feel that you understand him or
her or suddenly you know what he or she is thinking.
There is no need for anyone to speak.
The list of questions to ask yourself would be endless.
The bottomline is to remember that true love is a perfect balance
between two people. It's not one sided. It's a perfect harmonious
compliments between the two.
Sometimes, the best way to obtain true love is not to wait for true
love to come to you but to search for it. And not by going to
everyone and asking "Are you my true love?" but by giving him or
her the gift.
The gift of love. It is only by giving your love to someone that
you will find love lifted to new levels that you never dreamt
possible. And when you have found your love... it is by giving that
you will sustain your relationship. Never stop giving,
ever...
Sometimes but not all the time, you shouldn't take people for
granted for sometimes people are blind and not notice the
extraordinary of the ordinary...
Sometimes you have to love that someone just enough coz that
someone you love might be someone you hate and hate that someone
just enough because that someone you hate might be someone you love
someday...
Sometimes life takes a very interesting turn... what you never
expect, happens and what you expected, never...
[This message has been edited by zzzzland (edited 04 April
2001).]
