I think he did try to make an effort to explain and accpet this
as fate. We hv witnessed his past but he's conceding, so let's just
leave him and see how he proceeds.
Maybe this is a wake up call of sorts and he changes, we should
encourage, yes?
Anyway Poolman say his character is different than online and
he's much better in person, and we also not say enemies with
Poolman. He stake his reputation on this, so lets give Poolman the
benefit of doubt.
If he change then good la, if not we can simply ignore him like
before, but I think we can pancan a bit. THis is internet afterall,
we shouldnt read too much in what is said here as it's only a
virtual world not 100% real life.
I am more concerned in a fair exchanges of views and less
editing.
U really think..... he can changed ?
??? 
He is not 16-26 ... He is already 56. The older one gets,
the more stubborn he will gets. I may be wrong....
I am a forgiving person.... we just have to give him a
chance.... can't we ? 
