How would you feel?

browniebaobao SG

Recently been hearing all these entertainment news about celebrities going steady, kena caught going on a trip to japan etc..one officially announce that they are together, one say that 'i will not disclose who is my girlfren till the day i'm married.'

If you were to be in a r/s with somebody, and apparently the other half dun wana tell your common frens that you are together..even after break up, still no one knows..how would you feel? what would you do?

Patrik SG

Whats there to hide????

browniebaobao SG

only he/she/they will know..

[email protected] SG

actually its ok to me...cos when i together with my gf i at 1st also don like ppl to know abt it...even she also don wan...we don like ppl to comment on our relation...e.g keep asking so hows u 2? then they will spread ard and then everyone will say wa since when u 2 together?or steady nv tel me i gonna spread ard...then alot of prob arise ltr on (don have then good lo)...so when ppl ask we will deny we r together...but of cos now 2 yrs liao everybody know...except gf's parents...lol... Smile

browniebaobao SG

2 yrs liao and parents dunoe?

parents very strict ma?

BufPuf SG

maybe becoz they scare their popularity will drop after that, scare people will write about them and etc..heard before some idols are not allowed to have bf/gf after they signed contract

if my partner 'hide' my existence, i also dun see any point being with him....of coz i wouldnt want him go ard 'jia luo da gu' tell people..

unless we just got together, wait until slightly more stable den when people ask or see us together, then will disclose..other than that..can't find any good reason...denying my existence make me almost the same as being his mistress like that..

browniebaobao SG

agree with fog sao Mr. Green

ha8n SG

act. these things cant hide 4ever,esp. our little island

BufPuf SG

not mentioning until people ask or see is diff from hiding

some guys, even though their friends saw them holding hands with another guy, still can say they are still friends..somemore right infront of the ger

this kind of guys are 'yao bu de'!

browniebaobao SG

well, but there are really people who hold hands and do things like couple do, yet they are not really an item.

Patrik SG

Smile

BufPuf SG

quite true also

i mean those really couple den if the guy like that say

think really up to the couple themselves..some people like wad seaweed post prefer to keep it low profile, so that people don't bug them

browniebaobao SG

but once it's stable, and i feel that our frens should know...and we are still keeping it very low profile..

i will think...is this an underground r/s? why dun he want to let pple noe? it it bcos it's a disgrace to have me as his gf? or is he juz playing with me?

Patrik SG

He is not confident of himself?
He is afraid that once u meet his friends,u might find his friends better than him and that u might leave him for another of his friends.

browniebaobao SG

what if he dun have many frens...only one or two close ones..

what if he's a very confident person?

then how do u explain that?

Patrik SG

He is afraid of gossip.

shinta SG

maybe one of his frenz like u…. den dun wanna let fren noe he’s with u..

xking SG

Unless he's a celebrity....then i can be understanding.
But otherwise if not... probably he never accepted or recognise that the relationship even exist. If so, forget and move on... no point thinking over it again n again ba

browniebaobao SG

most likely.

browniebaobao SG

xking hua zhong you hua?