I do not much about m'sia gurls, so I do not wish to comment
much abt them..
However, when u say Msia gurls, what comes to MY
mind, are the KTV girls and maybe those u find loitering ard
Geylang streets..
No offence, Msia gurls...
And accordance to a newspaper article written by sumiko tan abt SG
men who cant stand sg women... n r always comparing them with gurls
frm other countries...
Sumiko wrote tt : Women from Malaysia, especially those from Sabah
and Sarawak, my friend observed, also out-score Singapore women in
the feminine/gentleness stakes.
He is not the only Singapore male to make this observation.
Recently, Xiewen, who writes the fortnightly He*Mail column in
Life!, spoke of 'very attractive Malaysian girls' who would 'hold
their partners' arms over dinner and feed them. And look so totally
contented'.
And she goes to write in defence of SG women..& I agree with
what she says...
She wrote tt : But, yes, the Singapore woman - especially
if she is better educated - is a confident and assertive
creature.
She is pragmatic and, hence, materialistic. (Money talks, right?
Both Singapore women and men know that).
She is articulate (well, more so than the Singapore man) and will
fight to defend herself and her loved ones.
She goes out to work and tries to excel in her career because (a)
it is expected of her; and (b) the money she brings home makes life
easier, for herself and those she loves.
She is frank and has no time for mind games, making her, in fact,
naive at times. There is little pretence and guile. What you see is
what you get.
She is also a product shaped by her society.
Singapore is small, cosmopolitan and competitive. There are no
fields or farms where uneducated women are relegated to toil
in.
Instead, much stress is placed on education - for both sexes -
because every pair of hands counts in the urban workplace.
When they go out to work, women are judged by the same standards as
men. In fact, one of Singapore's earliest female role models is Mrs
Lee Kuan Yew, the wife of the Senior Minister, who has proven to be
a successful lawyer.
And because homes and cars are so expensive, women have to work -
and work hard - if they (and their husbands and families when they
get married) want to enjoy the finer things in life.
Can you blame us, then, if we tend to be businesslike and are
uncomfortable with displaying more feminine traits like flirting,
or feminine skills like prawn-peeling?
I, for one, can't see myself peeling prawns for anyone at a public
meal, except perhaps my niece, who's small and helpless.
I mean, why does a man need a woman to do that for him if he can do
it himself? Unless he is out to prove to others around him that he
has control over her, that she is 'his woman'?
And why would a woman want to peel prawns for an able-bodied man
unless she wants to make a show that he belongs to her?
Either way, the mind games being played here turn me off.
It's another matter if the prawn-peeling is done in the privacy of
the home, of course, for couples do share all kinds of intimate
displays of affection, be it the woman putting on the man's socks
or the man fetching her a cup of tea or the newspaper.
So, yes, the Singapore woman may not be the most charming and
flirtatious of women, and she may not always make her man feel
good.
Still, if you think about it, Singapore women show they care for
their men by going out to work and helping to bring home the bacon,
and often a large slice of it, too.
And when they are upfront about their feelings, they are actually
showing respect for their men, for they are being honest. They are
not treating men as idiots by trying to fool them through saying
one thing and meaning another.
Now, if this isn't good enough for Singapore men, can you blame
some Singapore women for turning to foreign men who can appreciate
them for what they are?
Yeah.. great article, which was dated Jan 6th, 2002, and I kept
it...
So U GO GIRL, SINGAPOREAN BABES RULZ!!! 
