Why are men this way?

libido SG

Men's willingness to date certain women and not others was solely based on physical attractiveness.

When they see full breast and hard nipples pushing against clothings, they instinctly think," oh yeah, my off-springs will grow big and strong sucking those".

When they seen slim women, they instinctly think, "Oh good, lean women are good aerobically to gather food for the family. I want her now.

Finally they prefer facial symmetry and good complexion= the potential partner is free from parasitic disease.

Hahaha, now you know is due to million years of evolution. Not that we are skin-deep. Mr. Green

duotiga83 SG

nature? Rolling Eyes

evanesence SG

the off-spring thingy?? Hmm… men’s animal instinct in them?

sunny6110 SG

Me also like to date prettier women… Is like dat de… Me also think very “Jian”. But cannot help it leh… If both the Head and the Heart cannot agree wif each other sure follow the heart de… If got nokia 6110 and nokia 6610, which would u bring to a date?

kopiosatu SG

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libido SG

Animal instinct? Of course, even though we have evolved so far, we are still very much like wild beast. You may not even realise it, when instinctively you know what to go for. all in your subconscious. Want to know what women instinctively go for? Good news is, if you are not born with those, you need not go for plastic surgery and Marie France.

evanesence SG

elaborate on the last part pls??

edLow SG

yeah.. good looker i dont mind. but if so farking disgusting and still dress this way.... ask them go die lah! hurt my eyes

libido SG

One thing I noticed real life. Guys dun want their partners to be bigger than them. I have a big-sized female colleague, many of my friends actually say, “so big-sized, I dun want”. Well, must be something to do with evolution also.

Parka SG

Pyschology.

dark_slayer79 SG

x2 Laughing

edLow SG

who say one?

evanesence SG

I guess it's human nature to admire the beautiful things in life, however, when one starts to judge people based on their appearence... tt's really sad... Neutral

libido SG

I say one lah. Put a Taller and bigger-sized female with a shorter male as a couple. Go and get some feedback, I bet you most will be negative. Stereo-typing you may say me, Male ego you may say me. The truth is even in the animal kingdom, this rule hold true. When scientists try to find what attributes in male Cichlid (a type of fish) appeal to female fish, one attribute is for sure, the female fish prefer male fish that are bigger in size than themselves. Ask some women what they want their male companion to be like, chances are they prefer someone bigger. Ever seen a romance book cover with the female bigger than the male? Cool

Lynette80 SG

there's always a saying " never judge a book by its cover"..
who are the real ones that never judge a book by its cover.. i think people have to really do an assessment to go deeper rather than just depending on the appearance....

i think i also judge by cover.. but at least i am trying to find one with cover and personality? if he loves me alot alot but dun have the appearance, that would be fine too.. but that will take a longer time since i have to do an assessment on his personalities...

Transmission SG

Hmm..
this part is well said

evanesence SG

Yeah, even if the smaller guy is a really nice guy, I would just wanna stay at the platonic level with him...
Cuz maybe, I would want to have a sense of security, so I would want a guy who is bigger size or taller than me...
appearence does matters to me, at least to a certain extend..
Im not gonna indulge in self-denial like the rest ,n go "Oh no.. I dun care abt looks, its the heart that counts"... Rolling Eyes
Im pretty realistic when it comes to such stuff, like I said earlier on in a previous thread, if I cant picture myself making out with him, then we would nv go beyond the platonic level..
So is that the animal instinct in me reacting??... Hmmm... Neutral

libido SG

Also social pressure lah. Imagine when the pair go out and get disapproved looks. And, also get negative feedbacks from friends. Need a lot of courage, confidence.

lone_gunZ_man SG

hm....
actually human beings has stop evoluting(or is it slowed down) during the past hundreds years....so it is expected that guys will react this way.... Rolling Eyes

Biologically, guys get sexually arouse when they see "specimens" that could provide good offsprings but the idea of a perfect mate differs among males...so that's why the word fetish is created and added to the dictionary..... Laughing

In social terms, we have seen television and advertisements portraying the perfect woman as those have good figures and features....and basically the first impression really matters to everyone rite....??? Wink

So i think it is best for girls to just ignore it, cuz it is never going to get away...and if that day whereby guys would not be interested in gals with good features and figure, i think most of them would have became monks already.... Very Happy
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libido SG

Fat Wallet. Mr. Green