what hurts...
- letting go of a person you've just learned to love
- reminiscing the good times you shared together
- shielding your heart to love somebody
- trying to hide what you really feel
- trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from
your eyes 
- loving a person too much
- giving up someone you never thought of giving up
- having the right love at the wrong time
- taking the risk to fall in love again
- hiding your relationship from someone else
- controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend
- letting go, because everytime you see the person, you only
fall
deeper
- holding back only to find out when it's too late, you both felt
the
same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much
that
you didn't let the feelings out
- falling in love with someone you didnt mean to fall in love
with
- finding the perfect girl/man...with only one prob....he/she
doesnt
love you...
- seeing the one you love crying for someone else
- the waiting also hurts like hell
- having to hear "... I've met someone"
- agreeing to her wish to 'just be friends'.
- asking her freedom back bcoz 'she'd be happier with him'
- asking you to 'forget that everything happened' and be
'normal'
friends again.
- hearing that you're treated as a big bro (ouch!)
- sharing her future plans for the guy with you.
- you stopped being friends bcoz her bf asked her to.
- being denied in front of people.
- telling you lies where she'd been when actually, she was
with
a 'new friend' or an 'old flame' (whew!)
- she told you she'd be leaving you to! return to her ex (the one
she
left 4 you!)
- breaking someone's heart
- fighting for that one thing that would make you happy
- that is, holding on to a person who can not guarantee you
her
commitment unless she fix himself...then, you are left hanging
for
the moment...then she says, time will tell but
you still decided to keep the hope in her and trust her
- PRETENDING you're OK when inside you're
dying...
- PRETENDING to be strong...and RECOGNIZING your
weakness
- lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you
can
never have...
- being with someone you can't actually love...
- pretending you don't love a person whom you actually
love...
- being in love...
- letting go even if you really don't want to...having no right to
say
you are huting because it was your decision
- seeing the person you love hurt because of you...and not
being
able to help that person...
- having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love
and
finding out afterwards that things will never be the same
again
when he doesnt treat you with the same closeness as before
- having to face the fact that someone is capable of
completely
destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving
you
weak and vulnerable
- admitting that you love someove despite her imperfections
- finding out that the more you try to hate her, the more you end
up
loving him, perhaps even more than before
- realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your
break-up.
- the thought that this girl, used to really love you and you
loved
her as well kaso you didn't give enough and she gave up on
you
- Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else....."
- making a promise....and realizing that when the time has come
for
that promise to be delivered....the commitment is no longer
there...
- the hardest thing about love - believing it exist.
After you've been hurt...
...learn to forgive
...learn to trust and love again
There are many beautiful, charming and wonderful men and women here
on earth, it's just a matter of who you get to meet along the way
and who you choose to end up with for the rest of your life.
"Love has its own time, season and reason. You can't ask for it
to
stay. You can only embrace it when it comes and be glad that for
a
moment in your life, it
was yours."
