Are you close to your sibling(s)?

last SG · 2004-04-07T04:29:10+00:00

i really envy those who is the oni child ... they may feel lonely at times but beta than being like enemies when u haf younger or older sibling and not in gd...

www SG

some brothers/sisters are natural-born enemies.

some lucky ones end up as best of friends.

whereas there are some who behave like complete strangers. to them, hi and bye are the most in-depth vocab in their conversations.

so how well do you get along with your sibling(s)?

for single child, would u prefer to have a sibling or remain where u are today?

FireIce SG

not relli......

my house is like a hotel.......
'strangers' living under one roof.....

daytime we both at work/paktor....
the oni time we communicate is at nite...."oei! i want to use the internet!!"
or in the morning, when getting dressed for work "oei! why u wear my skirt?!"

tts about it.......

wuming78 SG

sad to say, im not close to my elder brother.

and im the only other child.

i always wonder if things could have turned out differently, and how things would be if i had a younger sibling.

perhaps tts wat i m trying to find out now...

weeeeeee..... SG

well, i have 2 younger sis, which i call them as da-mei and xiao-mei. i might not treat them as good as i shud, but i do love them.

my da-mei though is married and moved out to stay wif her hubby, i still keep in touch wif her regularly. i consider myself pretty close wif her, where we discuss abt family matters together, giving advices to each other, etc. i even seek her advices on "woman medical problems" for the purpose of knowing my gf better Wink

my xiao-mei is mentally-challenged who is staying together wif me and under my mom's care. becoz of her medical condition, i've to take care of her as a big brother. she's very temperamental and can get into temper very often, but i always try my best to show her my patience and give her something to "hong" her, such as treats or play cartoon vcds for her to watch, etc.

sgboy2004 SG

in a way, u can be considered a good brother Very Happy ...but definitely room for improvement

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weeeeeee..... SG

i agree... there's definitely room for improvement. Wink

IamAngeline SG

My brother is moi best frenz... Mr. Green

I love my bro! Wink

Qoo`~` SG

im the only child....

use to like it this way...but come to think of it, i wish i could haf an elder sis.... Mr. Green

Estee SG

i have a elder brother, a younger brother and two step-brothers.

elder brother last time very fierce very demanding, now better already...... he sponsoring me money to buy clothes for his wedding, so ok lah not bad...... hahaah Laughing

younger brother closer to me, i always buy FOOD gib him..... hahaha....... Bui Zai...... Twisted Evil

step-brothers are just like strangers living under-one-roof, we dun chat, wu dun greet, we no whatever....... even to my step-mum, address her as auntie nia..........

Very Happy

Sir_Horny SG

i m a lonely only child Crying or Very sad
i love to have a sister who i can share my problem wif

p|gGyPeN SG

I'm the eldest, with 2 younger sis and a brother. Used to bring the 2 little ones out when they were younger, but not anymore.

They have their own activities in sch and friends to mix arnd with. However, we still talk abt probs and crap. I wouldn't say that we're close, but i'm sure they are the ones who'll be arnd if something should happen.

www SG

am i right to say that:

- most only-child would prefer to have an elder sibling?
- most youngest child in the family would prefer to have someone younger to show their care?

the Bear SG

my sis and i go bowling with friends Smile

won't have it any other way Smile

ChrisYX SG

Your second point is quite true. Wink

I'm the second child in my family and I only have a older brother. Used to fight him day and night when we were young, really can't stand him Twisted Evil , but now have got better can talk personal matters when the need arise. Very Happy

Sometimes I do wish I have a younger sibling, for I want to shower him/her with the care and concern my parents and brother had given me. Mr. Green

IamAngeline SG

ehh not really lah..
I'm the youngest in the family. however, yesh! I am really glad to have my elder bro ard!

Oh~~ I miss him so much Sad

Hw I hope he's back in sg now Sad

www SG

u are already very fortunate to have such good bond with your brother.

any further preference would be a sin. Twisted Evil

IamAngeline SG

Yesh fortunate..

but comes to think back..

we fight a lot when we were young Confused Laughing

Play wrestling, arguing over phone usage, tv, computer games..

'wonderful experiences' Twisted Evil

ditzy SG

Not close at all. I barely speak to my younger sibling. If we do, its only out of necessity.

e|mo SG

only have a younger sis... our relationship is hot and cold..
when it is hot.. we can be real close, sharing secrets, shopping together, etc..

when it is cold.. machiam cold war loh.. both got attitude problems Rolling Eyes

i always wanted to have an elder bro... (that's why ended up with so many kor kors...) Laughing
sometimes when i'm outside, you see how those guys cared for their sis...really envy them.. i definitely don't enjoy being the eldest in the family..

elawee SG

same same

i have a younger brother

when close, really very close

but when both got attitude, can fight n quarrel like enemies

used to be much closer when he was younger though...now he grow up liaoz n i got bf liaoz so dun spend so much time together liaoz

wished i had an elder brother though