realise alot of ppl say nothing.
can share frankly : do u realli not know, or r u simply humble and
didnt want to say?
tts one thing abt asians - sometimes we r too humble for our own
good. imagine at a job interview: the boss asks "why should i
employ u?" and ur answer is "i dunno..." how much confidence does
tt invoke in the boss?
another thought: mabbe we realli do not know, cos nobody has ever
told us - again another trait of the asian society, where praises
and positive feedback r rare and hard to come by, while criticisms
and complains r the bread and butter.
imagine how much one can uplift another, simply by telling him or
her, sincerely o cos, "hey, i think you are great with your blah
blah..."
jus some thoughts this thread triggered in me. 
