ditzy SG Fear of being left out, coz got so many old birds, then the new birds go already feel abit out of place. The old birds may flock together as a group and sort of leave out the new. For example, if one old bird starts a common topic that only all the old bird knows about. The new birds will go scratching their heads trying to catch the ball. Thats how they feel left out.
jOhO SG hmm i can't remember leh it's so long ago.. i dun have much problems with shyness.. but i guess when i was new pple that i haven't met aren't that important to me, so in a sense i put the outing as last priority, if i busy then i won't go. but then that means i dun really suit ur profile of being "keen to go, and want to make new friends" cos i'm not! anyway now wat deters me from going (trying not to sound dao like some marine creature!! ) is becos some pple i rather not see, and also of course mainly becos busy. but hey, i'm still pretty active, and can still complain when u all boh jio!!!!!!!
MooKu SG uh. The number of people going Too big a number freaks me out. So many new faces at one go. And then.. sometimes alot of people going for a particular outing I'm not familiar with..
www SG Originally posted by jOhO: hmm i can't remember leh it's so long ago.. i dun have much problems with shyness.. but i guess when i was new pple that i haven't met aren't that important to me, so in a sense i put the outing as last priority, if i busy then i won't go. but then that means i dun really suit ur profile of being "keen to go, and want to make new friends" cos i'm not! anyway now wat deters me from going (trying not to sound dao like some marine creature!! ) is becos some pple i rather not see, and also of course mainly becos busy. but hey, i'm still pretty active, and can still complain when u all boh jio!!!!!!! *nods furiously*
MooKu SG how you know... tao yan. not one to one lar. if it's one to one, then i'll reject it straightaway
the Bear SG these days, somehow, outings become HUGE even last week, the LRJJLB outing was supposed to be about 8 ended up with 23 or something
