imagine this scenario:
u r single and unattached. and there's this person whom u like a
lot and wishes to go after him/her. but he/she is already attached,
or has no wish to get into any relationship wif u at all.
meanwhile, there's another person, whom u know that he/she likes u
a lot, and wishes to get into a relationship wif u. but u r not
interested at all and juz wanna maintain a platonic friendship wif
him/her.
given this situation, what wud u do?
a) maintain ur perseverance and continue to make effort to get the
person u like?
or
b) settle for the person who likes u, and hope that love will
develop within ur heart for him/her? in other words, bei ai shi
xingfu de.
or
c) any other options...