sighz~
During the 3 mths when I was transferred to sales dept, I got to
know this aunty J. Through out these 3 mths, got to know her
better.. quite friendly. She will always buy stuffs for me, like
pendant, tibits, necklace, etc.. (not expensive stuffs)
seems like a nice lady, married with a daughter (lower sec)
always ask for my help regarding internet or computer stuffs... i'm
ok with it. then whenever you icq/email, she will suddenly pop
behind you trying to see who you are chatting with. (minor issue -
i will just tell her its personal, don't be kpo lah!)
then when i got transferred back to cust svc, my lunch changed to
1-2pm whereas her's is 12-1pm. sometimes she will da bao my lunch
back for me.
when i finally realised something is wrong with her.. its last
friday!
i just finished my lunch and walked over to a/c dept for a chat,
aunty J came over and asked what am i doing over here. (why can't i
be here? do i have to report to you?) I just tell her, i'm chatting
with them, what's wrong? And I asked her, how come you so free?
your lunch time was over long ago... but she ignored and stayed to
chit chat. (she kept trying to make me leave a/c dept, to go back
to her desk)
1st attempt: she said something is wrong with her hp, call waiting
seems to be disabled. she asked me to go to her desk to take a
look. I told her, if you want me to help you.. bring your hp to me,
don't expect me to go over. she went to take and... problem
solved.
2nd attempt: after which she said her hubby wanna buy a new nokia
hp. need my help to search the webby to see what's the feature of
the hp. I told her its not as if you don't know how to search, why
must you always ask me to do it? lost for words... she went back to
her desk...
then my lunch is nearly over, i went to her desk to take my hp and
there she asked me, you very close with the a/c colleagues eh?
(close or not, do i have to report to you? its none of your
business!) i just said "cannot is it?" then went down to my office.
(their office is on the 2nd level, mine is 1st level)
then when i went home.. i started to feel her behaviour is kinda
weird. making me uneasy.. as Monday i was on MC, i only asked two
of my colleagues who have been working in my company for a long
time already and we are on friendly terms.
i told them separately about the friday incident, both of them told
me didn't you know that aunty J is like that (possessive)!
I said i have absolutely no idea, if i knew about it.. i would have
kept a distance from her.
they said before me, there were a few "victims" also. she will be
on very good terms with them, treat them real nice... and expect
them to follow whatever she likes, hate whoever she hates.
once there was this victim A, who had been giving in to her all
along.. until one day she cant take it, she told her off! aunty J
cried, saying why you treating me this way.. 
and she remain mentally disturbed for quite a few months till
victim A resigned.
then victim B, aunty J went home to tell her husband and daughter..
she can live without them but she can't live without victim B!
(siao bo! i nearly freaked out)
because my lunch time and hers are diff, they told me she don't
even wanna take her lunch because of me.
and sales team will be shifting down to 1st level in 2 weeks
time.
aunty J told one of the salesperson, she wanna swap the lunch time
so she can lunch with me after they moved down. ( i
never said i wanna eat with you.. why she so
thick-skinned!!!)
then i told my two colleagues help me think of some ideas..
maybe can ask the salesperson to alternate the lunch time instead
of swapping then during aunty J's turn to eat 1-2pm.. i will tell
her i don't feel like eating 
these couple of days i have been avoiding her like a plague
it was so obvious that she asked the a/c colleague, why is it
lately when i talk to me, i don't seem to respond and like i'm
avoiding her. whenever i see her, i will quickly hide under the
desk 
my colleague tried to cover up for me.. saying oh, this morning she
bend down because she dropped something.. not hiding lah 
piangz! how long can i endure...
i really wanna talk to her face - face... to leave me alone!
but was advised not to.. as we are still colleagues and aunty J is
a very sensitive person.. later she cries.. 
(she cries then what.. i'm the one suffering...
)
