go slow, milady... go slow.
i have the same sentiments here... there r times i wish i have a
gf, someone to share my joy and sorrows wif. someone who can be by
my side when i need a company. someone who really care for me and
think of me when i'm not around.
i've been unattached for more then 4 yrs already. during this
period, i've met lots of gals, dated a few of them. sometimes the
temptation of "having her as mine
on a permanent basis" were also too great to resist.
i was rejected by some, most reasons given to me were becoz i
wasn't their type.
i rejected some also, the reasons i gave also "she's not my type",
"i foresee trouble if i get into relationship wif her", or "i'm not
ready yet", etc...
there r a couple of times i almost started on a relationship, but
glad i didn't when i get to know them further.
an example, wah... this girl looks decent, the girl-next-door type.
she's not glamourous, not pretty, juz average looking. she's cute
though, i love her smiles. but... she's bloody inconsiderate,
doesn't care abt other ppl's feeling, very sarcastic at
times.
another example, got to know a girl who is very smart. we had
intelligent conversations. but when i got to know her further,
she's actually a flirt, a cock-teaser... oh no, i can't take
this.
u too... don't jump into a relationship for the sake of having one.
get to know him as a friend, know him further. if he's still what u
like, then go ahead. but if u find out something on him that u dont
like, then u will be glad that u didn't.
trust me 
