Saturday, 21 November 2009, 10:30 pm | 622 views
The following is a comment posted on TOC by “AAA”, under the
article,
“How Singapore appreciates a PRC who tried to
integrate”. The author of the comment
describes himself as a “PRC scholar”. TOC tried to get in touch
with him but our email failed to be delivered to the email address
the author provided.
Nonetheless, we publish it here, without edits, for
discussion purposes.
Hi TOC
I am a PRC scholar and I have graduated from a local university,
just a few months ago.
I have subscribed to TOC RSS feed since last month, and from
here I’ve learnt a lot about Singapore, and how people here view us
foreigners. I believe it’s always good to hear difference
voices.
Before I came here, I didn’t really know much about how
Singaporeans see China, and of course I didn’t know the debate on
whether to import more “foreign talents” had been on for such a
long time.
Now almost five years have passed and I have started working. I
have a more complete picture of this society, its people, and how
they think, especially after my 5-month long job seeking.
Firstly, I feel it’s difficult to draw a conclusion on whether
your policy is right or wrong. However, when I see a Singaporean
trying very hard to communicate with food stall staff who can only
speak Chinese, I also feel very “strange”. My feeling is that they
are very nice people, but they didn’t go through proper language
training, or they are allocated to the wrong place.
When we talk about “integration”, there is no doubt that efforts
have to be made from both sides. If you are rational, you won’t
make any generalization based on a single incident and/or what you
assume to be the case.
China is a very special country. Its complexity and diversity is
so huge that it is not easy for pure “city boys and city girls” to
understand at first glance. I grew up in a large city with 6
million population, but I got the chance to meet with many people
in the countryside, and some of them are my relatives. When the
mainland people started spreading overseas thirty years ago, we saw
people from different classes going out to find a “better life”, or
just make money. Within the country, more and more farmers go to
large cities in East China to make a living. Yet, the majority of
the population (60%) are still living in villages and small towns.
And that, creates the big gap between the rich and poor.
So… when you see a male from China on the street, he can be a
businessman, a movie star like Jet Li, a scholar like me, or a
construction worker who only earns 700 sin-dollars a month. They
are from different regions, with different educational backgrounds,
different dreams, and very different “quality”. In large cities of
China like Shanghai, it’s exactly the same thing. We are used to
that, while I find a lot of Singaporeans are not comfortable or
“satisfied” with that, or some of them find the construction
workers “annoying”. “Diversity” is a big theme in the world. People
of different classes live together, and that’s what a metropolis
usually look like in the current world, no matter it’s an European
or American or Asian city. Yes, they are making money, and…
contributing to this society. Meanwhile, they behave in a way they
are made to.
Sorry if I’m wrong.
The real question is: Is Singapore a better place without these
foreigners? What would be your plan if you were MM Lee? Is that
plan feasible?
Secondly, a lot people settle down in Singapore after coming
here, and yes, a lot of them leave this place and go to other
countries or go back to China. For me, we are bonded to work in
Singapore for six years, and I don’t see a a lot of people go to
other countries immediately after graduation. Most will at least
fulfill the bond, and then, they will make a choice. That’s the
whole story. For those studying in private schools, no matter where
they go afterwards, they have paid more than what they get. I think
on this issue, you can trust your government. They will do fine
calculations.
In term of human development, I think Singapore is in-between
China and the US. China is rich in culture and resources, and
usually you will find more delicious dishes in China, than in i.e.
Singapore. However, a lot of people in China are not that
disciplined and polite as some of you. That’s true. And there’re
some not so nice Singaporeans as well. And there are very big flaws
in the system, which could collapse and cause riots any time.
There’s a long way to go.
I really admire MM Lee as a great leader in modern Asia. He
leads a small country, but he’s been playing big politics. And he’s
one of the few who still have such a clear mind at this age. His
promotion of English education is politically successful. However,
it makes most Singaporeans not have decent knowledge or even decent
language skills in Mandarin or English. You are definitely smart
people, but just my advise, you need more “culture”. For example,
it’s very hard for me to find a Singaporean student to discuss
about Chinese History, or Europeans History, in a decent way. It
seems that your system make your “values” limited. It’s also not
easy to find gifts to bring home for my relatives.
But overall, Singapore is still a model for China, just like 30
years ago when we just opened up. No matter how rich China will
become, if people only go for money without knowing how to care for
others and taking social responsibilities, China will never be the
Han China or Tang China again.
“Integration” is a long, and maybe a frustrating process. Things
will only change when better “understanding” is developed.
P.S. Chinese girls are not coming here to steal your husbands..
LOL, it’s the same thing everywhere. Some Singaporean girls will
also “steal” other people’s husbands, right? Human nature.. Just
take good care of him and make yourself stay charming. Btw I’m
male.
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