Struggling is bad. But they are your parents, and it is only
right that the children take care of the parents. I have no
solution for the struggling childrens.
I have no idea of the eldery care system in USA. I am sure there
are both good and bad places there though.
But let me ask you a very practical question.
When you are old.. do you expect your children to feed you while
they go hungry?
I believe old people should be given the chance and
infrastructure to be independent.
The children are there for the support, but expecting to rely on
them 100% is not practical at all.
And what about the grandchildren ?
If you have children.. do you really want to be a burden to them
?
Many times.. I imagine myself growing old in Singapore.. wat
kind of life will I be living ?