Before all, let hear from the sons and daughters first, a many
times old peoples complain here and there, but when asked their
childrens, they find their parents unbearable to live with and also
mistreated them when they are young. At time, one hv to blame
oneself for bringing up a mess of the family, maybe when she was a
young mother, she neglected all her child, beat them, or whatever,
so we hv to understand that what you planted shall sow in the later
stage, if u take care and nurtured your childrens well, they
will be filial piety to you when you grow old.
Yes, as a girl, i do pity this old woman, but the
question we hv to ask, why the children all neglected her, is there
something that we dunno about her. In our emotional mind, we tends
to pity the poor old people, but that can be their former
ignorances.
Agree, sometimes old ppl describe what they see in their head n
not what happening around. They can carry lots of emotion
with them.
