is tat the way couples shld be??

xiao_shin SG

i've always heard my guy friends tat their girls always "tok" them. go where also its taken for granted tat the guys will foot the bill.

anyone encounter this or wld like to share ur ideas??

FireIce SG

guys oso take for granted tt girls must do housework and wash dishes....

why dun they suggest go dutch in this area? Mr. Green

Joshua1975 SG

If the guy feel been 'tok' than the gal he is with sure not someone he really like or love.
If it is for years and still feel been 'tok' haha he is not getting anything from her Laughing ask him to move on.

ziezoe SG

Equality is not about being equal.

However, I do recommend dutch... from 2nd dates onwards, till both are comfortable with who foot the bill.

gerrykoh SG

poor thing, that means u are dating the wrong type of girls. There are some very considerate, willing to pay

Ah Ma SG

dutch is best

Estee SG

you lai you wang~~

xiao_shin SG

went back to reservist these few days.. ive heard my camp mates complaining tat their new gfs ah... this this this.. tat tat tat...

no_speeding SG

I foot most of the bills for my gf....
nv had that feeling that shes taking me for granted...
hahahaha...
opps... Shocked

Forever84 SG

I tink the guy should pay la
but depends la if still studying
mayb sometimes should go dutch la

gaoyue SG

imo, i dun mind footing the bills, but when i get the feeling im there made used of, it repulses me. Neutral usually.

Imperfect SG

not always... not all gals will take the guys for granted... there are some who will appreciate and some will insist u no need to pay for her... there will be some who will treat the guy back...
...but remember
Do what you WANTED to do and not what people or yourself THINK you SHOULD do...

Evanglion SG

Just do whatever you want to do.. If she wants you to do it, you can said don't want what Razz .

xiao_shin SG

Originally posted by Imperfect:

not always... not all gals will take the guys for granted... there are some who will appreciate and some will insist u no need to pay for her... there will be some who will treat the guy back...
...but remember
Do what you [b]WANTED to do and not what people or yourself THINK you SHOULD do...
[/b]

wow... chim sia.... Neutral Neutral

my_name_is_Natasha SG

should take turns la…. but not to the last cent…. guy pay for dinner, gal pay for movies or drinks…. give and take is good….

Imperfect SG

what u want to do comes unconditional... what u think you should do comes with conditions... or u will resent later on...

yunzhongzi SG

But frankly, I think if the guys think so, then they might be doing things quite unwillingly... Anyway, I once heard one of my close friends said this : Girls will go for the guys' $$ and guys in return will ask the girl to pay back wif their body...

If this is indeed true, will the guys still have the cheeks to say that their girlfriends "tok" them???? Evil or Very Mad

gaoyue SG

that is fair, but what if girls do not go for the guys' money and guys want the girl to pay back with their body or what if girls went for the guys' money and guys are not even thinking of such demands?

this is inbalance and it does happen.

FireIce SG

there are oso some ego guys who insist they mus pay for eberything…....to show they are “gentleman”.......

gaoyue SG

so in conclusion, moderation is best lar, too much of something is no good. Laughing