right from the start, one should always ask him/herself: do i
like or wish to marry this person because:
1. my heart says so?
2. my eyes says so?
3. my brain says so?
sometime ago, i remember seeing this article in straits time's
forum, posted by a reader.
not in exact words but there was a sentence that went like this:
... you shouldn't judge a person by how he/she treats you,
but observe how he/she treats the waiter when the both of you are
out for a date...
