So I've met this girl in class, rarely talks cos she's my
junior, in the same lessons about twice per week. Befriended her
thru FB (she knows who I am, in class, etc). Initiated FB message
talk her, chat about a 3 days, and she gave me her number asking me
to whatsapp her if there's anything (told me FB hard to talk). Text
another few days and she invited me to her 21st bday party (this
coming sunday 7 APR).
All along the vibe she gave me in the text was pretty good
(usually text till wee hours). We asked about each others, what
we're doing, usually do, sch stuffs, R/S status "check", told me
I'm super handsome blah blah blah. Flirt a little with her, and she
usually goes haha, HAHA, or change topic. Chat in the phone once,
asked me to drop by to "see" her in sch if i'm going. So far still
ok, friends, new friends, starting to have a little interest in
her. But it all happens after i did not "drop by". Started text as
usual, and halfway, she stopped replying (1st time). Guess she's
busy, so i re-initiate a text another day in the evening and same,
halfway stop replying (2nd time, notice text getting shorter, and
she don't asked what i'm doing , up to etc anymore). Waited 2 days
later and again re-initiate a text. This time didn't last about 10
sentences (3rd time stop replying).
So I'm the kind of guy that that thinks a girl is pretty
impertinent if they just of no reasons ignore our texts, even
though when we end with a question. sometimes a statement does lead
to reply though IMO. So 2 hours later, i text her : u seems busy,
anyway I'll see u this sunday for ur birthday then. She replied 2
min later: haha, i'm studying. I didn't replied her since then
(it's been 3 days). I know it's long. I'm trying to make new
friends here, sparked some interest in me initially. But after
this, i'm starting to re-consider/ loss interest. And cos i'm
meeting her this sunday so i doesn't want to be seem to be rude
here.
To all gals out there, we (guys) are very simple creature, if we
are interested in u, wanting to know u more, u girls can sense it
(i know all does). It's ok to play hard around, but sometime don't
try to go too far and ended up appearing to be rude, imo. maybe not
all but just some playful ones. Sincerely, may I know what kind of
happened here? Did she just abruptly lost interest? Am I bothering
her? P.S, I don't really keep spamming text at her, it just goes by
the "feel" of our convo.
So I'm going to her bday party this sunday, and have already
bought a gift. What do u think is the worst outcome here? or can I
do anything to spark a little interest back? Thanks for
advice!!
Sorry for the essay. Just wanted to be clear even though this
may sounds stupid.
