thanks for the cold blanket :(
nope. actually, it's all about making the girl feels comfortable
with you.
Even though me and that girl chance = -000.0000% of being
together, I treat her like a good friend, so when she need helps
she'll come to me. when I need help, she will help me.
Red, you can only have one life partner, and probably
100+ more friends in life. My thinking is... "I can have
more special friends who value me more than just 1 life partner
whom I spend most of the time I quarrel with".
The weird theory of relativity.
People wants to get into r/s when they are single because they
wanna experience love. After they've experience the sweet, sour,
bitter, spicy of love, they can't wait to get of of the r/s. At
least this happened to me quite a while ago. 
I'm still learning how to love.
I know you like that girl a lot and she meant a lot to you.
if you can't be her boyfriend, why not
be her special friend?
I know I'm stupiak to say this... but.. if you love her,
let her go. if she love you, she will come back to you.
