I'll go straight to the point. I know that communication is
important between two people in a relationship.Knowing this, I made
sure that my relationship had no communication problems. When
I had doubts or insecurities, I'll tell him about it.
I admit that I had a lot of insecurities in this
relationship.This is because I am a girl.I take the initiative ALL
the time. Meeting time, venue ,activity. And when there was any
problem in the relationship, I was the one who will take the
inititaive to clear the mess. After a year and a half, it became
disturbing for me. I began to wonder if he really likes me,if this
is a one-sided relationship.
Yes, i told him about what I typed above. But he still doesn't
take the initiative.It doesn't work. We don't even meet every two
weeks.He doesn't bother to call or text me at all.How can I not be
insecure?I end up compromising for him most of the time.Like,I sent
him home when I was supposed to be studying for promos.
[luckily, my results were fine, but it wasn't as good as it shld
be]
I broke up with him. 700+ days down the drain. The breakup
lasted <5min.
Me: lets break up
Him:ok,expressionless
.....so girls shouldn't take initiative, huh?
Hey I guess you're just with a guy that don't really know how to
treasure you as his girlfriend, allow me to say something though.
Give time time and you'll get over him over sometime, life is short
to be upset over this kind of jerk and once you get over him, I
believe that you'll find someone way better than him and someone
who knows how to treasure you and treat properly as a
girlfriend.Cheers.