Don't scare her by bringing her to your parents on first
date. This is like driving your relationship with her
to the grave.
Go movie or have a meal are very safe to do on first
date. Pubbing is not bad except that it is noisy and
you and her may not be able to hear each other.
Oops, wait, unless you go to one that has less noise.
The Atrium Lounge at Marina Mandarin has nice ambience and music
from piano and some singing . A nice place which
is not sleazy. Here you can hear what each
other talk.