The art of flirting is something
that everybody must know if they wish to make progress with a
relationship with the opposite sex. Though it is a complex skill
and many articles have been written on how to flirt without letting
the opposite person know that you are doing so, many individuals
are not able to make much headway with members of the opposite
sex.
The reason is these articles give you only one half of the picture
and do not emphasize much on the fact that flirting like most
skills require a good sense of timing and the person must be able
to recognize whether the opposite individual is ready or in the
mood to flirt.
Similarly, very often men are not able to make out when a woman is
actually flirting with them and lose out on some of the
opportunities to take the relationship a step further due to this
lack of understanding of woman behavior.
This article informs you about 10 apparent signals given
by women indicating their willingness to either flirt or actually
telling you that they are flirting with you to seek your
attention.
#10. SHE SMILES
A woman is unlikely to just smile at any person across a room and
when you have somebody actually smiling at you, make sure you
return the smile. The fact that she has identified you amongst many
in the room and taken the initiative to smile at you is a definite
sign of interest in you and you should not miss this
opportunity.
#9. SHE KEEPS WALKING BY
When you are standing alone and there is a woman who keeps walking
by you rather aimlessly, it signifies her intention to draw your
attention. You must seize this chance and engage in some
conversation with her. Of course, you must first make sure that she
is indeed going out of her way to just walk by you and you can make
this out from her body language.
#8. SHE DRAWS ATTENTION TO HER MOUTH
One very important physical and alluring part in a woman’s body is
her lips and mouth. They are very much aware of this and would
invariably try to draw your attention towards that part by either
applying a fresh coat of lipstick or gloss or by running her
fingers on her lips. Some may even use the straw to sip the
cocktail as a very seductive gesture. The woman’s mouth is a
tremendously seductive weapon and most of them will use it to their
advantage to get the attention
they want. You must be alert to such gestures and make
use of the opportunities presented by such women as definite
indicators of them soliciting your company.
#7. SHE ISOLATES HERSELF
Having established eye contact, a woman may excuse herself from her
group as she is aware that you will not be able to break
through this wall of her group.
This deliberate action from her is a sure sign of her interest in
you and she is indicating to you that she is amenable to a
relationship with you. It is now up to you to take it further from
here by talking to her and do your bit to develop the contact.
#6. SHE MIMICS YOUR BODY MOVEMENTS
It is a well known fact that two people very much
in love with each other tend to
imitate certain actions of each other. So if you notice a woman
mimicking some of your actions, you can be dead sure that she is
interested in you and wants your attention.
#5. SHE PLAYS WITH HER HAIR
Like the lips and mouth, the woman’s hair is another potent weapon
of seduction which she uses selectively. One very popular gesture
is twirling her fingers around her hair or letting the hair fall so
as to partially cover an eye. This lends a mysterious look to her
persona and is another indication of her interest in you.
#4. SHE TOUCHES YOUAny physical contact from her side is a sure
sign of flirting and wanting to take the relationship further. So
when she gently brushes your arm, shoulder, wrist or hand, you can
be rest assured that she is very keen to make progress and you must
spare no effort to reciprocate.#3. SHE MAKES EYE CONTACT
It has been said that the eyes are the windows to the soul, and
that through the eyes truth can be gleamed. Eye contact is a sign
of confidence and trust. She’s stating that she is not interested
in games and that her intentions are straightforward. The duration
of the eye contact is proportional to her level of initial
interest.
#2. SHE ENTERS YOUR PERSONAL SPACE
When someone comes so close to you so as to occupy your personal
space by just brushing you with a smile, she is giving you definite
hints that she is interested in your company and providing you with
a invitation to get to know her better. You need to reciprocate
accordingly and demonstrate to her that you are equally
interested.
#1. SHE APPROACHES YOU TO TALK
This action is very similar to the earlier one and is a much more
forthright approach in letting you know that she means business. By
choosing to speak to you, she is cutting through any overt gestures
and allows her to gain your singular attention. While talking to
you, she may maintain total eye contact, sometimes touch you,
imitate you and will do any of the above mentioned flirting
mannerisms. This is your chance to impress her and make rapid
strides in developing the relationship as quickly as you can.
The above tips are some of the typical gestures that women will
make to gain your attention and are by no means exhaustive. It is
up to you to remain alert and pick up other gestures and mannerisms
that you notice and take full advantage of them.
