I have heard of many people is still single throughout their
life and had never been into relationship before really made me
ponder a lot of reason here. I post this topic here to draw
discussion and also from my personal experience in
relationship throughout my 10 years since I step into
relationship world.
First of all, I have many male friends who have not been in
relationship before, some never hold a girl hand and worst, never
had the opportunities to talk to girl.
My question here is do you really want to wait for the
durian to fall from the tree as in wait for girl to come and
approach you? *Question to a single guy.
My key point for a relationship is to lose your pride and
be courageous to break the ice. Do something which you fear
for your life, stand in front of the girl to capture her attention
and strike the conversation. I believe not many people can do
that.
I would like to share my personal experience here, I'm
currently working as a deliveryman, driving a van delivery goods to
various company and each time I pass by a bus stop, seeing many
beautiful lady dress in shorts waiting for bus. And I'm that kind
of guy who is thick skin and never embarass to girls, I will honk
at them and wave. Believe it or not, some of them did actually
smile back to me. This brings confidence in you and there was once,
she was alone waiting at the bus stop, I stop my van in front of
the bus, stopped for a while, strike a conversation with her and
moments later I got her no. What did I say, I'm not gonna disclosed
here. You definately feel nervous at the beginning but after you
break the ice, the entire world is going to belong to you.
And I tell myself, so what if you earn 5 or 6 figure per month,
if you not going to talk to girls, girls will also not going to
talk to you.