hi everyone,
i m facing a r/s problem right now. i have
been single all these while in my life. afew months back, i have
this crush on this girl from the same camp. tru some sheer chance,
i managed to get her number, all these while, i have been chatting
with her tru msn / fb and everything seems quite alrite. i was bold
enough to ask if she is single and she
said 'yes'. i was damn happy and tot i would stand
a chance in dating her.
Previously, i tried to ask for lunch with her in sch
but she is always busy. so i tot hols would be a better opportunity
to ask her out since everyone would be more free. then afew
weeks ago i send her 2 separate sms asking if can go out for
lunch that kind but she didnt reply. on the third attempt , i asked
her over msn and she took quite long to reply. she says ' ok but
not so soon'. then i proceeded to kind of arrange a date with her
but then after that she nv reply at all liao. since then, i nv talk
to her or sms her le.
I really hope i can have the chance of dating her but now
the possibility seems like very low. her bday is coming up and i
have already bought her a gift. recently i hear rumours that some
other guy is jioing her as well. i feel damn sad. its like the
first time i take such an active approach in knowing more about a
girl because last time i used to be very passive and 'bo chup' that
kind.
also, i dont have the looks and wealth, making me feel
inferior to her coz she is quite pretty and she looks abit that
kind of high maintenance one. my friends told me i should give up
while some said i havent really talk much to her. i dont know what
to do from here, can anyone esp girls advise me from
here?
regards
You barely know her and she also barely know you. Chatting on MSN
and Facebook don't means anything at all.
And also it depends on how you communicate with her, the way you
phrased your sentence whether politely or not, indifferent or not,
straightforward or not, relax enough or not...all makes a
difference to the result that you are seeking.
If you got no looks and weath, and if you cannot even talk
properly and if you're really not a people-caring type of person,
then you are really not as good as you claimed to be. She can sense
it from the chat and so can I.
Normally she will tell you both of you got no chemistry and
it's better to remain as friends. But I believed you must have said
something or your attitude towards her in the chats, makes her feel
unattracted to you.
It's difficult if she's not attracted to you, but if you got
enough balls and guts and great sense of humour and sparkling
personality, you might just be able to pull through.
If you don't, then you need to help yourself to become someone
who got all these criterias.
Why don't you tell us HOW YOU GOT HER NUMBER BY SHEER
CHANCE?
REALLY SO TERRIBLY LUCKY THAT DAY? 
