When it comes to romantic relationships and dating, the word
honesty seems to have taken on a different meaning. A lot of women
equate being honest with being open. When a man is not open to a
woman, she considers him dishonest. But being honest and being open
is two separate issues.
Everyone has their share of positive and negative experiences in
life. It is entirely up to you to decide which experiences you wish
to talk about in the presence of your date/partner.
If a man only chooses to talk about all his positive experiences to
his date, she can only have a positive image about him simply
because she doesn't know anything negative about him. Despite what
they claim, women want to enjoy their date by having a positive and
uplifting time with a guy. Anything that is negative will only have
a negative effect on her interest towards him. Which also means
that anything positive will only have a positive effect on her
interest towards him.
You can tell her how you used to represent your school for
athletic/sport competitions. Tell her you have a great family and
enjoy spending time with your family members on weekends/holidays.
Tell her you have a great job where you get along very well with
all your colleagues and you enjoy the work that you do. But never
ever brag though. Basically everything that comes out from your
mouth has to be positive and avoid anything negative at all
costs.
Woman like men who are mysterious and they like the fact that they
have to work to find out more about you. They like to play
detective and find out everything about you. So it is of utmost
importance for the man not to give the store away too easily. If
you tell her your whole life story on the first date, then there is
nothing interesting for her to find out anymore. You have to open
up to her very slowly. Spoon feed her bit by bit.
In fact, it is highly recommended for the man to do only 30% of the
talking by asking her questions about her and let her do 70% of the
talking. Listen attentively and ask her questions on her answers.
Women love to talk (about themselves).