You are barking up the wrong door. All I know is that if a girl
likes you, she will 100% croone all over you. Most men think that
it is a challenge to go after the girls, playing their silly games
but what they don't realise is when they do this, they tend to
spoil their women. Most men just take the playing games and mind
games into their stride. Until they go later into their
relationships and found out the true nature of the women; by then
the arguments are out and these men decide they have enough.
To be fair, I don't think gals would do this kind of thing at
you unless they genuinely don't like you. If they do genuinely like
you, she would be more honest and open. We men got to change our
own mentality and start making dates surreal and not let our women
behave childlishly. We men also want to see the true nature of the
women, we want to know whom we are sharing our lives with. If they
constantly play these dumb mind games, we men just gave into their
whims and fancies and by the time these gals show their true
colours, it is too late. That's why we keep on reading things from
TS having second thoughts about their girl friends. This is because
we fail to make the proper evaluation. We men just simply go for
the rubbish chase (which by the way is no fun at all but very
entertaining to the gal). We risk ourselves getting expose to these
women and getting ourselves hurt. We also get our hearts played out
and made a fool in public.
It is time we put a stop to this and go for the surreal old
fashion dating. I am very sure that there are honest women out
there who just wants to go out for a simple dinner or watching
movies. No mind games, no telling other people and no playing
around. We men want relationships that blossom to marriage. What is
the use of playing these games? Nonsense. Mr Cua Soil Lack is
married and yet he went for Johor Trists. So what good use is all
these games? Are these silly games to prevent their men from
betraying them? Are these games made to make the girls feel more
highly valued? No. Won't a simple dinner and telephone
call would suffice? Don't get me wrong, romance is not wrong. In
fact romance is healthy in a relationship. But watch out ! Some
games go too far. If we detect any backstabbing, any bad manoevring
means this lady is getting people against us. Little bit of
game is good so as long as the lady show some care for their men.
But if it goes too far and starts to hurt the men, this means that
these ladies are out there to only play with your hearts - its
either for $$$ or their pride.
Be wise to choose whom you want to be with. I am very sure
that if the gal likes you, she won't mind doing dating
things your way. If not and if it looks suspicious then she is only
interested to play a fool out of you and perhaps only want
expensive presents and your $$$.
I agree with the founder of playboy. Be smart and dont throw all
your $$ at the girl. Cos who know? For all you know she may
fall in love with your $$ and not you =) Trust me, whilst you can
buy your way into somebody's heart, its not something that will
sustain a meaningful relationship.
Go dutch for your outings. If you want it to be more
romantic / gentlemanly, you can go for a slightly uneven split.
For example, if you're going to watch a movie and have
dinner, consider which of the 2 will be more expensive and pay for
it. Dinner for 2 will most prob be $50, unless you're eating
at Kopitiam/ Fast food. Let the girl pay for the movie tickets +
popcorn, which comes up to about $30.
