Need help on dating signs

snowieyun SG

Noahtay SG

hmm my thought about this matter maybe is that that guy that look at u maybe is thinking why do u take so long the change your contacts.

if u do really wan to know if he like u or not, try asking his close friends.

deathmaster SG

do you like him? if you don't, just ignore his actions.

if you are interested, can try getting close to him. e.g. talk about common interests? sports? hobbys? movies etc.

after that, den maybe ask him out casually. go shopping? lan-games? movies? and observe his reaction to ur invitation lor.

and if you really really want the answer and is interested in him. just tell him straight.

tell him you like him and ask him whether he feels the same for you. unless the guy has no interest in the girl, it is unlikely that he will reject a girl.

Veggie Bao SG

You can try to have a little chit chat with him.

That will break the ice and is a chance for you to know him better.

Next time when you happen to be close to him, try to.....ask the time, or borrow a pen, or ask a question about the class subject.......then you start to chit-chat a bit....then see how it is.....

snowieyun SG

Forbiddensinner SG

yea..we have break the ice already. i can see that hes trying to put in some efforts to stalk me on my whereabouts. but what really pissed me off is that hes trying too hard to play jealousy game. i feel kinda turn off by him. why guys like to do this? hes trying to show that hes popular with gers? everytime i walk behind him hes talking to a girl happily or a group with ignorance of my prescence. sighs...

First thing first, are you interested in him?

If you don't, then ignore him. If you do, then be aggressive and make the first move - No point in playing the silly waiting game.

snowieyun SG

Forbiddensinner SG

i admit that i feel jealous. but what he gets out of it? does he feel better? man is just insensitive about a woman's feeling. if you like a woman just show that you are a man. agree?

I agree that quite a number of men are insensitive.

But the question now is whether he is truly interested in you or he is just playing around. The answer will be revealed if you are to approach him.

If he is interested in you, ask him to be committed to you instead of playing around with the other girls before becoming his other half. If he is not, you will get an answer which at the very least will stop this 'game'.