Question for Girls

Bran don1112 SG

Hi all, I have a question for you girls, single, divorced or widowed.

Will you gals consider going into a serious relationship with a divorced man with a child whose mother is still visiting the child weekly? If the answer is yes, will you feel awkard or jealous or even uneasy that the man's ex-wife is still in his life because of the child? Of course I am referring to myself, I would very much like to get attached and I had a chance to last year, but I do not know how the girl would really feel inside coz when you started out dating, EVERYTHING is ok. But when things enter a later stage, when plans of settling down comes, a lot of such different probs and issues start to arise.

I would very much want to be attached, but I worry too much abt how my partner will feel eventually as I am a guy who wants to give the best I can to the one i love. Do you think I should get a girlfriend in this situation?

And do you think a man like me sould get a gf when I am still linked to my ex-wife(even though I do not wish to but because there is a child in between!)?

Pls give me your views/comments/advice, esp those who went thru marriage before, divorced or widowed, or girls who had been with married/divorced man before.

Hello Kitty SG

wat made u stop luvin ur wife den?

Daveteo SG

So if the girls reply that they don't want to enter into a relationship with you than you will become a single monk for the rest of your life?

Bak la va SG

TS,

I think the most impt is not whether your future gf can accept your past, is how to present to her to accept it. If she is willing to be your gf after knowing that you are still in contact with your ex-wife means that you have some things that she likes.

But the question is ,are you confident to handle problems occur between your kid n ex-wife with her?

Fcukpap SG

multivariate reasons for divorces....but the main reason coincides with the rise of sluts and their sluttier motives and needs breeding inside them physiologically that are so helplessly maslownian, which basic needs are no longer satisfactory...

more importantly whether future gfs are high on the maslownian scale....even u got them...your cost-benefits cannot sustain...it would lead to another wave of divorce cycle....

Fcukpap SG

so many sluts to a rotten log like the hot JN case.....these sluts breed like termites with high maslownian needs that only by being exploited and commercially exchanged could these sluts be satisfied...

what more could we hope for future gfs ? or angelic sluts would be a nicer label....

Fcukpap SG

the stupid govt does not feel the ground anymore....cos the colombian scholars are so engrossed with statistical performances and regressions.....how could they know all these are happening at our psychological levels?

brainerror SG

yes, but i dont think i would be jealous.only if your girlfriends to be is understanding to your situations.Both party must sit down with an agreement to allowing your ex partner visiting your children.after all, she is the mother of the child, you are the father of the child.so yeah, before the start of this relationship, DO tell her you were onces married and still do have a child.IF she cant accepts it, tell her goodbye.because after all, no child wants a screwed up daddy with no mommy.
think about it hard and wise before making a big decision in life.