Relationship

OrganicHealth SG

I knw this girl who is 2 years older than me, I am 19. Meet her during one of my class gathering last christmas, she was my classmate sister.

We started of quiet well, and begin dating about few week ago. As she is my lst love, I wonder what is "dating" and how close should we be to consider ourself dating and not just a "close friend"?

Secondly, she been complaining that I am too cold toward her and she dont have the feeling that we are dating, more of just a good friend. She asked me to let her know that we are infact dating. What does she mean?

Does age play an important part in our differences?

cApitaland SG

maybe you should be more affectionate. meow.

Forbiddensinner SG

Check List:

1) Holding hands

2) Kissing

3) Going out as a couple without anyone else tagging along

4) Cuddling and Patting

5) Little gifts

6) Frequent dates

It is likely you are missing something from the above list.

dibilo SG

You missed out the most important thing. Talk. Have you ever sit down somewhere such as at coffee joints, beach or park and talk about your past, your feelings and your aspirations? She feels you are cold because you aren't talking to her enough and not trying to understand her enough.

But, after you have understood enough of her, follow the famous quote:

MaNyZeR SG

You need to show her how much u desire her... how much you want her..

hold her hands, hug her and kiss her...

if possible caress her as well

OrganicHealth SG

Yes... i think you are right. Is it true that such things or action should only be initial by guys, what and how you think if the girl is the one who initial it... thanks.

linwei20 SG

Age actually don't play an important role. As long as you both get along well with each other. I myself also the same case as you too. At first i tought i was too young to woo a older girl, but i am wrong. We already together for 1 years plus! So go for it!