confused

DouglasBitMeFingerBoomz SG

Hey guys just one question

some people say that if you like a particular girl or boy, means that you have to become friends with them first (obviously)

then some people say that if you like a particular girl or boy, means that you have to give them time to get used to you and accept you

but some people also say that if you like a particular girl or boy, you cannot stay as friends for too long otherwise it would be awkward if the relationship didn’t go through

so should you stay as friends for a long time until that person gets used to you and accepts you, or confess as quickly as possible?

im confused.

dkcx SG

That actually depends on the couple. Relationships that starts too soon won't last.

I know a couple who been friends for 1-2 yrs before formally having a relationship. My niece also got together with 1 of her sec sch classmates who she once said she knew too well to be in a relationship but they are together now anyway so nothing is set in stone.