Heres a little change of subject which might suit everyone
including volunteers who run this place. Yes.. even them need the
warmth of woman sometimes.
Women in Singapore are the by product of the education system.
Singaporean men need to understand, but not get angry, is that the
more educated a women is, the more she is likely to express herself
boldly.
Ego plays a very important part in the mindset of a woman. She
needs to know she can handle herself as well as her male
counterparts. Therefore, if you wish to understand us women more,
you need to know her egoistical points. To understand your 'enemy'
means you have half the battle won.
I know girls will hate me for this but this is for the better
for our home grown boys.
1) Be
yourself.
Now, this myth is self-defeating. Women like us, love sprouting
this deceptive term. It is to put the man off guard.
'To be yourself' actually means 'to be the man' and doesn't mean
being that lazy slob you are when nobodys at home. It also means,
if a guy is willing to take stride in the way he woes his woman, is
certainly going to get her.
Girls secretly love guys who have a dating circle, it means he's
comfortable with dating women, although it might spell a comitment
problem, it's still a positive trait girls secretly look out
for.
2) Bad
boys.
Women love bad boys not because they beat us (which most nice guys
focus on) but they provide a much more muscline choice
compared to those who consider themselves as 'nice guys'. The bad
thing that comes with bad boys is bad attitude and bad
outcome.
Imagine a badboy in his 40's... not the same as badboy in his 20's.
Same person ...bad lifetime choice.
But fret not. Even nice guys can be bad boys. All 'nice guy' needs
to be or to do is be bold.
You've wintess us going gaga over a hearthrob, whith some
muscle definition and still call him 'nice guy''. Yes, this is the
type of nice guy a girl wants. Someone who is bold and nice. Not
the ones we label 'nice guy' and have him as a friend
forever.
So the idea is to be a bad boy who is nice and
gentlemanly ..to us. Yes it's complicated but that's they way
it is.
3)
Looks
Her body is everything to her. It also means her 'market value' in
the dating world. And also because we know guys like to hump great
bodies. So tell us we have great legs, although we know you'd
rather check out our headlights.
So it would be good if a guy takes care of his body too. Work out
alittle and keep clean. No girl goes gaga over a fat boy. We
'settle' for fatboys.
Fat women who like being fat have their own personal agenda which I
do not know how to comment on. :)
4)
Money
Money separates the gold diggers from true partners. Never flaunt
your wealth excessively. If you do, you will attract women who are
accustom to wealth.
Women who are single and 'high maintenence' are your worse
investments. You need to keep her satisfied so that she can be
sane. If you're suddenly broke, she go nuts and you'll go nuts
too.
5) White
Men
There's nothing to worry about them. A woman who has a whitefetish
or suddenly have a whiteboyfriend will not appear or
reappear in your dating circle. Women who are up and
about in your dating circle are better choices.
Women who openly declare 'sorry I date whitemen only because
Singapore men are ....' sounds really stupid and ignorant to a
white woman. A reject needs a reject.
The problem with women who date white men, is culture. If she
marries him, someone has to make a life sacrificing choice of
moving away fomr or to Singapore.
Make friends with our white friends, be it male or female. You'll
have a better feel of things.
6)
Sex
Women who say 'men only have sex on their minds' are hypocrites. We
all love sex even if we do not know it yet.
Have a great day!