Be natural is the worst advice.
If u have no experience in dating gals ,be natural will surely get
u no where..
When u date a gal and meet her out. Have a purpose and aim in yr
conversation with them. Yr place of meet out and dining is also
critical in yr success. Get a nice ambience and quiet place(No need
to be expensive but good for couples to chat to heart). U need to
do yr homework. YES,homework. Be prepared for
some of the qestions u are going to ask her.
Now comes the critical part – how to make yr conversation
interesting. As I say, have an aim in yr conversation.
What do u want to find out from her? Common things like hobbies,
more profound thing like character.
Checkout with her and see whether she’s a outdoor or indoor gal.
Be prepare in yr question for her. Ask what she likes to do? Is it
mostly indoor stuff like read novel, watch dvd,drama. Or outdoor
stuff like hiking, shopping ,watch movie.
If u want to find out more of her character whether to yr
liking. Asking her some simple question may shred some light for
u.
U can check with her like, will she be angry if someone makes u
wait for half an hour? Again, check with her , her tolerance lvl
for waiting someone. Her reaction , her respsonce. More or less u
can find out her temper, patience and her thinking. Ask it in a
casual manner and don’t ask it too blunt. Make it a casual
chit-chat.
Of cos, they are plenty of questions and ways to find out more
of a person’s character which I don’t want to make it too long
here.
Lastly, do yr homework well in dating if u are not a natural
speaker or a sociable persons. Be prepare yr questions well. Know
what to ask and what to say..
