cannot ar.
with 4k a month already needs to save up for many months to buy
30k diamond ring. How long will it take with much less than 4k
month?
Ya...so Singaporean guys must save up at least 30k
in their bank a/c first then they will have enough confidence
to go after the girls that they like.
But cannot show the girls that they have 30k in their bank a/c,
must pretend and act extremely poor first. Then when it's time to
propose, then "chu" their 30k and buy a good proposal ring and
propose and surprise the girl. 
Guys must act poor in the wallet and bank a/c, but must be
really rich in their hearts and minds.
This way they can filter out all those nonsense, demanding and
materialistic girls who are not princess material but likes to act
like a princess.
Of course I'm not one of them. 