is this a date or what?

Giatato SG

eh..need some help here. how do you differentiate between dates and going out with a friend of the opposite sex one on one?

i have gone out with my other guy friends 1 on 1 leh..but we go out is just basically as good friends...then about a month ago, my crush asked me out and we have gone out like another four times or so but i have no idea whether its a date or not..argh.

a lot of people ask me if we are dating, but i really dont know eh.

how sia?

ditzy SG

Its a date if you go out and make out.

Giatato SG

sian..last time when i was with my first boyfriend, think i was too young -.-" nvr expected him to be my boyfriend..then we dated for like 6 months i also duno, too innocent already ahhaha. then now duno whats the 'element' that defines a date, sian.

kopiosatu SG

a date is after that eventually u sio gan

BadzMaro SG

Its a date if you go out and make out.

Nice pun. heh

skeujin SG

ditsy n kopi r half right.

if u go on a date n make out or sio gan, thn after tt still go out together w/o make out or sio gan then its a date.

if go on a date n make eout or sio gan thn nvr meet anymore = one night stand

if go out n make out n sio gan all the time = fook buddy

if go out no making out n no sio gan = lousy date

Rednano SG

eh..need some help here. how do you differentiate between dates and going out with a friend of the opposite sex one on one?

a lot of people ask me if we are dating, but i really dont know eh.

how sia?

its not a dating date as long as u didnt chat abt each other... e.g. get to know each other, personality matching, some physical signs like touch touch ur hands when chatting/joking, stare into the other's eyes...

basically, its all about body language, n if u r not interested in the guy, pls dont lead him on, n give false signals...

DownAndOut SG

x2, its sad to be the guy when he learns that its all one-sided.

pheeoner SG

it's not a date if BOTH of you know it's just going out based on friendship. if otherwise, it's most probably a date