1. He never calls
you first.
Sure he calls, but it’s always to return your call. Running
after someone can become an obsession—a disappointing one. Is he
playing hard to get or just not that into you? Here’s how to find
out: don’t call him for a few days. If he calls you, great. If he
doesn’t, move on.
2. He won’t plan
ahead.
You invite him to a hot party next month, and he hesitates
before giving you his answer. Maybe he’s waiting to see if
something better comes up—a sign he’s not ecstatic about going. If
his final answer is “yes”, then rejoice: all may not be lost. But
if it’s “no”, and it’s his second refusal, cut back on the
invitations and rethink the relationship.
3. He won’t come
up for a nightcap.
You’re both coming back from a party, he’s driving you home,
and you ask him if he’d like to come up for a drink. A classic
move, with a classic response: “yes”. But if he surprises you by
refusing your invitation because he has to get up early to take his
cat out for a walk, start asking yourself some questions. If it
happens more than once, it should be clear that you’re just not
clicking.
4. He’s vague
about getting together again.
At the end of your date, he suggests keeping in touch—and
nothing more specific. It may not be the end of the world, but if
he really wants to see you again, he’ll make the time. Maybe you’ve
just started dating and he fears putting too much pressure on you;
or it could be he’s not so sure he wants to see you again next
week. You’ll have the answer soon enough if he doesn’t call in the
days to come, or if he turns you down the next time you call to ask
him out.
5. He doesn’t ask
you questions.
How can someone be interested in you if they don’t want to
know what your interests are—or even how you are, or how your day
went? If he rarely ever asks you about your day or what you did
last night, it’s probably because he just doesn’t care. It’s
hurtful when the person you’re attracted to doesn’t show much
interest in your life, but better to realize it as soon as possible
and move on.
6. He doesn’t call
when he says he will.
He says he’ll call at seven, but your phone only rings at
nine—or even worse, the next day. When you do talk, he gives you
lame excuses for calling so late. You may be telling yourself he’s
probably too busy to call when he said he would, but why make
excuses for him? If he’s interested in you, he’d be thinking of
you, which usually leads to calling when he said he would. But try
to keep an open mind, too; sometimes there’s a legitimate reason
for not calling. Trust your instinct!
7. He hasn’t
introduced you to his family.
It’s true that presenting someone you’ve started seeing to
your family is a big step. It’s also true that some people need
more time before they’re ready to bring you home for dinner—if
ever. But if he’s already met your folks and you haven’t met his,
he may not be ready to make your relationship official. If you feel
he should introduce you to the other people in his life, then sit
down and discuss your feelings with him.
8. His friends
don’t know you exist.
Introducing you to his family is a big leap forward, and it
usually comes after a long period of getting to know each other.
However, there’s no reason why he shouldn’t introduce you to his
buddies—nowhere near as formal and stressful as presenting you to
his parents. If it’s going well, then he’s probably told them about
you, or even included you in plans with them. If he’s trying to
hide your relationship, ask him why. His response should make it
clear what’s going on—or not.
1. He never calls
you first.
Dont be cheap and try to fully utilise your free incomming
calls mobile plan
2. He won’t plan
ahead.
Cause your a boring biatch who makes him pay all the bills
when your out together
3. He won’t
come up for a nightcap.
probably cause you house is a mess, your bed smells like cat
piss and you only have cheap local beer in your
fridge
4. He’s
vague about getting together again.
Take a shower, your BO is overpowering. Try some mouthwash
too.
5. He
doesn’t ask you questions.
How can he ask anything if you just wont shut
up?
6. He
doesn’t call when he says he will.
So what? your always late for all your
'dates'
7. He hasn’t
introduced you to his family.
Well he mite if u stopped wearing low cut tube tops, mini
skirts and high boots. He doesnt want his parents to think he is
dating a prostitue
8. His
friends don’t know you exist.
His friends know bout you. They just dont wana meet
u.
