thanks a lot. very insightful.
its because she wants to remain single. and she feels bad that
she broke the news to me, yet she wants to keep in communication
and so do i. so it happened.
sometimes we are happy. happy when we spend time together.
yet unhappy when we talk about being in THE relationship
again.
You're welcome. Xiang dang nian, i overheard a similar story in
a bar between 2 drunkards, i also gave them the same advice.
One of the few misconceptions people have about relationships
are, relationships have to fit their definition.
So what if you are fuck buddies?
I've heard friends describe their past "relationships" in detail
and those so called "formal relationships" function no different
from the way a fuck buddy r/s functions.
While some others simply refuse to acknowledge an existing
meaningful r/s simply because their expectations and definition of
one entails so much more.
The human mind is a complicated machine. When you get older,
think of what you want, and then consider whether this woman has
the ability to meet your needs, vice versa.
Just chill. Status is just a status, if she insists it's not a
r/s but she's constantly hangs out with you, kisses you, shows you
affection then don't be so vexed. Don't listen to what women say.
Watch their actions. Actions tell you a lot more than words.
Being happy together isn't easy. Treasure what you have.