i can't say much... as much as im tempted to try it out... bcos
of having people thinking that we are "desperate"... that's part of
the reason why it's stopping me.
so, what other avenues can we widen our social circles?
think again, i shd probably change a job. my current job is
sucking up 80% of my time... not good. *mumbles to herself*
Even if you're not desperate, there might be people there who
are. 
Yeah
it certainly doesn't help to be busy with work most of the time!
You can always pick up a new course that offers you opportunities
to meet people of the opposite gender e.g. aikido? hehehe. Or how
about volunteering (for some excitement, maybe one that takes you
overseas to places such as Cambodia)...
