Friends here,
What is your definition of 'communication' between a guy & a
girl?
Do note that it does NOT apply to all people, only majority. Take
some time to think how you interact with the opposite gender.
Guys, you noticed you quickly got bored with the 'gals' chat? How
they can easily talk about ANYTHING under the sun and so
quickly?
Gals, you noticed how adament are the guys at when talking about
one subject? They can talk all day long on the one topic they
started with!
Now, how do you communicate with your BF/GF or opposite gender?
Fustrated why they cannot get your drift? Annoyed why they keep
harping on the same thing? Bewildered how the conversation did not
go to where you wanted?
One thing you have to take note when it comes to interaction with
the opposite gender: you have to understand how guys talk and how
gals talk.
Illustration:
Guys like to remain focused on one subject they are talking about.
They communicate with the intention of wanting to solve the issue
at hand. Until they are satisfied or they got the answer, they will
not let other topics deviate it.
Gals on the otherhand bring many things into the topic. It is
intertwined with what they are saying. Emotions, family, work,
leisure, stress, freedom and more all thrown into the conversation.
Notice how they change subject so quickly and yet so smoothly like
its linked?
So let me ask you again:
What is your definition of 'communication' between a guy & a girl?