I saw the post about this forum being dead... So maybe i'll
contribute something.
This is what my female friend told me.
My friend got to know a guy from the same school, but different
class. Well, she found him a nice person from first meeting. After
a few meetings, the guy started to "bug" her for her phone number,
in a friendly manner. My friend though it was fine and so gave him
her number.
What my friend said, went wrong for this guy was, he
thought getting her number = she is interested in starting
something.
That very night, the guy sms her saying "I'm going to woo
you."
Well, that guy, according to my friend was pretty good looking, but
his aggressive approach was a major turn off.
My friend, started to avoid that guy as much as possible, as she
was not comfortable with him around. Who will be if you know
somebody you know for just a short while is "wooing" you?
I gathered that, no matter how good looking you are or whatever,
being impatient would most probably make u lose the girl you
like.
Attract, not attack.