First impression lasted a long time. So, do it right... the
first time. 
I'm sure some of you have seen these before but for those who have
not.. here's it.
Please note, the "I" ain't me but the author.
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Bathe
The worst thing you could do when going out on a date (especially
if it is your first date with her) is to turn up unshaven and
looking untidy. Women are generally the cleaner of the species and
will judge you on how hygenic you are, after all you would be
appalled if she turned up for the date looking scruffy and hadn't
bathed for a while (no offence). It doesn't cost anything to take a
bath and make an effort. Also remember that bad breath and body
odour are also an instant turn off and she will assume that this is
how you are all the time, even if you are just having a bad day
(hey girls have bad hair days all the time! ) she won't see beyond
your appearance.
Arrive on time
The worst thing you can do is turn up late. Turning up late will
send out all the wrong impressions. Women always assume the worst
and one of the worst is turning up late, not only will she think
that she has been stood up, but will also think that you are
unreliable. If you are picking her up from her home then it is
advisable to turn up 5 minutes before you are due, any earlier she
will be adjusting her make up or still getting ready and won't want
you to see her half finished.
Be a Gentleman
Hold the door open for her, let her walk through the doors first,
pull out her chair, be polite to her and people around you. Women
like to feel special and by treating her like a lady she will think
you are fantastic.
Compliment Her
The first thing to say to her is "You look beautiful" before you
even ask how she is. Keep up the compliments throughout your date,
but don't go overboard. A woman loves to be complimented, feel
sexy, gorgeous/beautiful and know that you are attracted to
her.
Listen to her and ask questions
Nobody wants to spend the whole night listening to someone talk
about themselves, or not listening to what the other person is
saying. But you do have to get to know each other. Ask her
questions, but more importantly listen to what she has to
say.
I remember once, while I was sitting in a resturant waiting for
some friends, there was a man and women sitting at the table next
to mine and I couldn't help overhearing their conversation (him
talking of himself). I could tell it was their first date from what
he was telling her about himself. "I play Sunday league football, I
like roller-blading". He went on like this for about 10 minutes
without stopping, or asking her any questions about herself. That
day left an impact on me, and everytime I went on a date, I have
been consious of the woman and took an interest in what she had to
say. This is probably the best bit of advice I could give.
Prepare
The last thing you want is to be sitting having a meal, and the
conversation dries up. Think about your date and what you would
like to know about her and in return what you would like her to
know about you. Try and think of any questions that she might ask
you so that you can prepare the answer. You may think that it is
easy to talk and that you will not run out of questions to ask, or
that you will automatically have the answers, but until you are
there, and in the situation, you will have no idea what to expect.
You can avoid all of this by meeting for a quick drink then go on
to see a film, so at least you will have something to talk
about.
Who will pay?
This is a really tough question considering women are now more
independant and like to pay their way. I suggest that you offer to
pay and if she lets you then pay. If she wants to pay, you can
suggest that you want to at least pay for half the bill.
The goodnight kiss
Some women prefer not to kiss after a date, others are disappointed
if the guy doesn't even try. There is no easy answer to this. The
only answer I can come up with is wait until either she makes the
first move or that you both know when you are ready. Watch for body
language and little touches, but I would not advice sex on the
first date unless she wants to.
I'll call you
Only tell her that you will call her, if you mean it and intend on
seeing her again. This is an awkward situation and most of the time
the easiest solution is to take her number and tell her you will
call her, but don't if you are not interested. When saying goodbye
just say "It was nice meeting you" and wish her luck or you could
just say "Goodnight", smile and walk away. But if you do like her
and are interested, then you have to let her know.
