Furthermore every time a girl says "no thanks" and you get
angry, every time a date doesn't go the way you hoped and you let
it ruin your week (or month, or semester), every time a woman
you're attracted to doesn't seem to notice you, and you get angry,
you move a step backward on the love/sex/romance game.
Being a man who attracts women takes skills, and skills that can be
learned.
Every man out there, no matter
his age, his education level, or income, can learn great strategies
for attracting the women he finds attractive - and
then put them into play and succeed.
The skills, however, don't
learn themselves. They need to be studied, memorized, and then put
into play. The results then need to be studied, analyzed and
modified depending on what's working and what
doesn't.
If you were a pitcher who wasn't throwing strikes
you'd examine your technique
and figure out what the problem was. It's the same thing with
woman. You need to patience to first learn skills, patience to
polish them, and even more patience to study the feedback and find
out where things need to be fine tuned to win.