Does woman really knows what is a good man?

CannyOng SG

I recently know a woman who divorce with her husband cos he has another woman outside. But from what I know this guy never treat his wife anything from their 3 yrs courtship and always go dutch. Even when they married they also continue this odd practice! The guy never even treat her a movie show. NEVER... never anything

Can u believe this woman married him and as expected they seperated after marriage for only a short time! Can't the woman distinguish such man cannot be husband material? I find it odd sometimes some man are so bad and lousy and yet they(woman) married this guy,end up in divorce. Sounds to me like they(woman) are looking for trouble...

Maybe they never met a good guy before. I am wondering how can they(woman) make such mistakes? Or they're standard of a husband material(handsome enough liao)are really too low...

mistyblue SG

different definition … based on different people.

sunny6110 SG

U dun understand women~ Mr. Green

BrUtUs SG

probably its coz the guy’s look lo… love is blind…

kopiosatu SG

Nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai

guy not bad, girl won't love.

Neutral

walesa SG

The point is, if women - generally speaking - aren't going to ever make the first move, the law of probability would then dictate that they're only ever going to get to pick from the handful(and in some cases, really limited if any at all) of guys who pick them up. Isn't that a wonderful way to pick a life partner? Very Happy

leo-kun SG

maybe they are married due to others reasons?? you never know..

M©+square SG

Men have to realise the fact that Women reacts to emotions more than logic.

dokono SG

Please don't generalise.

Did he beat her up? Did he take her for granted?

Some women are okay with going dutch all the way and that is a good woman. We, as outsiders only comment this and that and then say it's the man's fault for not treating the girl. Remember, women now earn as much as men, if not more. Maybe he has done something for her not in monetary terms.

Don't get me wrong. The man is at fault for cheating. Granted some women will still love an abusive husbands/boyfriends. This is the type of woman to avoid. She loves physical abuse. Some women with brains will not allow any form of abuse to materialise.

doko

ShrodingersCat SG

A Chilli Plantation Uncle wise words:

A woman can tahan almost ANYTHING from the man she loves, except infidelity.

dragg SG

what makes a good man?

frankly, i dont know too.

Bontakun SG

I think most women know what is a good man to them, but most of the time they don’t follow it. As M© said, emotion over logic.

T.Ryousuke SG

Too many temptation outside is also a problem, woman want their man to love them like the time they chase them, man everyday see the same woman got sick after years. And nowadays ppl giveup marriage easily, whether they know their man is good or not is one thing, if their man don’t love them anymore is another thing.

blu_sky SG

Yes, true. Also, sometimes we see a man so good, we find it unbelievable. Well, usually as you get to know them, they arent that good lah.. haha!

Eric Cartman SG

why would going dutch be a bad idea and make the man bad? (if the woman has her own income of course)

poon cho tang SG

nan ren can only be huai if they r good looking Laughing

M©+square SG

Laughing Not true.