Think through before confession or just say it

babyreyes SG

You like someone.

Will u say it out loud ignoring factors (eg: she/he doesnt like you or heart already stolen by someone else)?

Or

You will look at the given situation before voicing out how you feel?

SingaporeMacross SG

calculate your potential losses first. if you have nothing to lose, then go!!

Ito_^ SG

look, plan and try to feel for the other person.

can't help it.

Patrik SG

If u really love someone,just let the other party know.
Dun look back on life and see this missed opportunity.

Pitot SG

alwaysdisturbed SG

wat losses will there b?

Patrik SG

Losing her as a friend?

alwaysdisturbed SG

hmm...ok

babyreyes SG

haha... how i wish i have the guts to say

oh..hahaha.. .when i was like 15 or 16...i did go straight to the guy and say "WO XI HUAN NI"

Now.. hahaha... i think alot...

depends on certain guys...

there are guys who will flee when u tell them u like them. Yeaps.. Provided they dont like you..of coz.

Im sure all of us ever came to a dilema on whether to confess or not....

moodyuke SG

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true, i agree, it depends alot on the gal and guy..some really avoid u like u have aids and some still regard u as their fren even though they don't have the special liking for u... agree?

aiglosicicle SG

i know the best thing is to confess because if i dont i will never know if i my feelings for the person is reciprocated and i might regret later.

but i've never dared to confess Rolling Eyes

killstyle SG

moodyuke SG

[quote]Originally posted by aiglosicicle:
[b]i know the best thing is to confess because if i dont i will never know if i my feelings for the person is reciprocated and i might regret later.

I agree as I did confess and I know how the person i like feels abt me. It's true, if u nv confess, u'll nv know how s/he feels. It would be a bonus if the person u like also have the same feelings as u do..
At least after confessing, very likely the 2 of u can be together.

babyreyes SG

yeapyeaps...

thres sure a certain probability tat he or she might avoid u after a confession. Most of the time..pple who avoid are those who are not sure of how to handle everything or afraid tat being with you will give u false hope...

Tats why..sometimes must must think think think whether to say nots.... if u know tat this person upon hearing such things have a high tendency of "siaming" from you after confession....best not to say too soon... Perhaps just drop hints..if negative feedback..i think its better to keep quiet...bite hte bullet n forget?

If got positive feedback from her...of course..its a bonus..the more u shld say out.. Yesh.... Big venture big gain..its a huge risk to say i love you..but the results may be rewarding..

babyreyes SG

one day u will have the courage to say out...

but sometimes.. if nd to confess...pls do so... have some courage...sometiems if u dotn say..u will really regret...

the biggest regret is not about losing..its giving up without even trying..

SpeedStar SG

I do have experience that after confession the gal just siam me like aids. If kinda of feel bad at first, but after a while will get used to it. Wink

HolySniper SG

yeah.. kanna this be4.. Laughing

rathcycle SG

What has this got to do with confession,

alexkusu SG

sometimes..

guys can get 'brainwashed' when a girl tells him she likes him

even though he dosent know/notice/has feelings for her in the first place