I have a neighbour... he's Malay, and to date he has 2 kids..
his wife has to stay home to look after the two toddlers, being
that he can't afford a maid, and parents are too old and sickly to
help out in any way...
... he now holds 3 jobs just so he can support his family of 2
kids, a wife, and aging sick parents...
They live in a 4 room HDB apartment...
how or what, do you call this, Family planning nightmare, Urge of
the flesh, or simply gung ho about life in SG?