there is no instruction manual to this.......
last time ppl dun even know how the wife/hubby look like until the
nite the groom lift the veil.....but they can still spend the rest
of their lives together
now we have all kinds of ways to find partners, choose partners,
evaluate partners, dump partners.....
and a lot still dun end up living happily ever after....
so it's hard to say lah