Before 
M©+square goes for nap.
Let me do some de-constructing....or is it reconstructing?
:: Different situation different handling mode. Briefly:
1 New friend
2 Friend
3 Close Friend / long term friendship
4 One sided attraction
5 Mutual Attraction
We'll do #4, cos more challenging.
:
To stand out from the many friends and be
special.
There are practically no rules on how to do it.
But there are rules on how not to Mess it up! (look out for the red
text)
Originally posted by babyreyes:
[b]Huh? just start talking??
=X
hehe......b4 talking to her..u must know wat she likes lors..wat
interests her...does the both of u have any common interests of
anything???
M©+square says
By this stage, let's presume you've known her for only a short
time. You don't know much about her yet.
So you'll do silly things like search through friendster to find
out more. Don't.
If you're clueless, take those as useful information, but do not
take them seriously.
Solution :: You can only find out more when she feels comfortable
engaging conversation with you. Try getting most hints in the
shortest time available.
Please refrain from asking her questions
like as if you've got a notepad by your side, jotting every single
details down. When you you're interested to know and sincere about
her, LISTEN.
Originally posted by babyreyes:
Just give her a call...then start by going hihi hows ur day....then
ask some qtns like erm..makan le ma...then erm..talk about things
she interested in
M©+square says
50% success rate(low risk - low gain)
These are cliches which every single girl have heard before, i
suppose they have been answering the same thing over and
over.
But you know what makes the difference? ONLY the guy whom she's
interested could make her fly with those cliches.
But if you really don't know what to say, i suggest starting off
with cliches is better than none. Get comfortable and shift away
from cliche, talk about topics which only both of you can
relate.
Always be sensitive to her response...but do not be
affected.
Originally posted by babyreyes:
if she cough cough, u must tell her to drink water n take
care....
M©+square says
Try to open opportunities to hint meeting up.
Eg : The next time i meet you, if you're going to cough, i'll get a
2litre bottle cough syrup for you.
(how you're going to phrase it depends largely on how the tone and
atomsphere is like in the conversation and the relationship
already.)
If her respond is : Really ah...hee hee
OR
Promise wor...
then you've won another half chance.
Take care and drink water, too common
le...don't do it la...Wait you say - She answer orh but her Eyes
Roll ah...i don't know. 
BUT! Unless she likes you...wah those words are treasure to
her.
Originally posted by babyreyes:
if she say she bz..ok lors..call her anohter time
if she continue to talk to u but sound sian..ask anything bothering
her...if she say tired or nothing...then u talk somethings
else..try to cheer her up with some jokes.... but if still sian
sian tone..i think u better siam 1st...in case u say soemthign
wrong...
M©+square says
Its hard to decphier in this area. Because there are too many
possiblities. Unless you know her well enough by now. Orelse, Try
not.
I suggest you should not attempt to talk nonsense if she's in a
moody tone. Offer to listen and be interested to know what went
wrong. Maybe something unexpected may appear.
Originally posted by babyreyes:
if she talk talk happy happy...gd lors...
erms..
then while talking ot her..make sure u not multi tasking...tat
means u off ur tv..ur com.....dont pour any water....wait
spill......u must concentrate on her...
if u beri xi xing....u note down wat she likes..doesnt
like....types of movies she like.s..her birthday all these
lors....
M©+squareThe good example of jotting notes.
Jot it down what is important and try to remember the small
details.
Remember, she is not a book.
then the best ar...u have one whole collection of jokes
or riddles by ur side...in case u nothing to say u tell her...hey i
got some story to say...blah blah
M©+square
Hmm...it makes a difference.
Whether you're a story teller, entertainer or what you say can make
her realise that you're putting in alot of effort.
You're a very special guy.
Practise this part and know what is the difference. **Hint
hint**
Originally posted by babyreyes
k la... said a lot le.
The Most important of
all.... Never TRY too HARD
Domo!!!
