Eye Contact

last SG · 2005-06-08T18:54:19+00:00

All this is only applicable if the guy is not grossly obese and pimply.

tut4nkh4m3n SG

damn can you make it earlier! please? my parents may be coming home anytime now... Sad

alexkusu SG

who? im just greasing the wheels of love for eveyone here..I already developed my 'killer' look.. Mr. Green

M©+square SG

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Most did not look at all.
Of those who did look, most only looked for a second. Only about a third locked on.
Of those, about half broke a smile or said Hi.
A couple of them where so moved that they almost tripped.

Do you have to be walking?

I tried the experiment while sitting.
Almost none maintained eye contact. Do they have to be walking?
While I was walking I would look at any girls who were sitting. The results were the same as if we were both walking.

If I was approaching two girls, and looked from one to the other, I lost them both.
So, if I am in such a situation, I lock onto one and I don't change my mind.

M©+square SG

For you. Only for you. Wink

But it's not the best part.

StarPuppy SG

Just wondering....Didn't they slap u? i mean i am not teasing u or what...but most girls will either scold or/and slap u

M©+square SG

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If she did not lock eye contact with me, I would go ahead and say Hi when she got close to me.
In many instances she would then enthusiastically turn to me and smile and say Hi.

I would also look at girls who were with a man if he was not looking in my general direction.
I was surprised at the number of times that she would lock on and actually smile.

I noticed that the better I dressed, the better I did. I noticed that the women who looked where better dressed then those who did not.

M©+square SG

Firstly, i'm not the author. However i agree to this technique as it have been tried before.

To answer your question. Why do you think they'll slap you by mere eye contact?
By your last line of the post. Have you seen girls slapping or scold guys who give eye contact - by that, can you give me information on what you've noticed?

You might be thinking too much and placed women to higher status than you are. Therefore you fear.

p.s. there a vast difference between staring and giving eye contact
Which will be featured in the next post. Wink

Devil1976 SG

Originally posted by M©+square:
Firstly, i'm not the author. However i agree to this technique as it have been tried before.

To answer your question. Why do you think they'll slap you by mere eye contact?
By your last line of the post. Have you seen girls slapping or scold guys who give eye contact - by that, can you give me information on what you've noticed?

You might be thinking too much and placed women to higher status than you are. Therefore you fear.

p.s. there a vast difference between [b]staring and giving eye contact
Which will be featured in the next post. Wink [/b]

Theories of Seductions...? Twisted Evil

When one sit, it's presumed that one can be just 'people watching'. So it's not that surprising that you're not 'locked on'. When one walks, it's presumed that he should be concentrating on his walking or wherever he wants to go.. Unless something more interesting got his attention.. Hence the various responses from the ladies...

M©+square SG

Come on dev.
It's just eye contact Twisted Evil
Not any seduction theories...heh.

Yup you're right about your comments.
Different women respond differently. Personality and peers affects judgement also. Wink

M©+square SG

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Never stare, i'll say that again - Never Stare.

DO eye contact.
There is a difference between staring and locking eye contact.
They are two totally different things.

When you look at a woman, here is what you do.
Lock eye contact with her. Don't blink. Don't look at her friend.
Pick one eye and don't let go.

You only get one chance at this. Don't give up. Don't smile. Don't say anything.

You are telling her that you are interested in her and you are not intimidated by her.

Then leave it up to her. You will be amazed at the staring capability that women posses.

She is thinking "Who is this guy to be so bold as to continue looking at me while I look at him? Now this is interesting. He is different."

She knows that if she lets go now, she will loose you.
She will go one of two ways.
If she wants to loose you, she will break eye contact and look away.
If she does not want to loose you, but is instead intrigued by what you are doing, she knows that she has to eventually end the stare down and she will have to make the move.

She will have to either smile or say Hi.

browniebaobao SG

For a moment, I tot M©+square anyhow go fang dian! Laughing

M©+square SG

No lah. I so guai...
Have you seen me before? Shocked

browniebaobao SG

u guai or not i duno...

coz i nv met u before. Laughing

but if u really know how to fang dian, then better dun let me see u, dun want to bei dian si!

tut4nkh4m3n SG

is there a part 6?

i didn't read part 3 until this morning. damn i had to go out yesterday.

M©+square SG

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If she smiles, you smile.
If she says Hi, you say Hi.
Don't say Hello.
Then you reward her and make your move.

Of course, you don't always have to wait for eye contact to make your move.

When you are talking to a woman, always maintain eye contact.
This demonstrates confidence and intent.

Don't theorize about it, just do it.
Pick one eye and stick with it.
Don't go from eye to eye, that is nervous.

That can only be done with great skill as she will associate eye changes to content.

The only time you do not look a woman in the eyes is when you are "motioning away" as you mention something "bad", such as her borefriend.
Anything "bad" is associated with "looking away."

That is after you have already started talking to her. But what about before that?

Again - always remain in eye contact.
Let her be the first to break eye contact.
Then make your approach.
It does not matter what the setting is.

It is universal."

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Interesting yeah? Try it!, especially to the unattached and shy.
All the best guys!

tut4nkh4m3n SG

nice.

i like all your posts in this thread so far. please post more of these kinda stuff it's interesting.

browniebaobao SG

yesterday went to see doc..he's a relief, my doc was not in.

Being an inquisitive person, I asked him about my condition etc.I always have eye contact with the person i speak to mah...but then he v shy leh..hahaha Embarassed Laughing see his dimples, so cute!

M©+square SG

Are you attached? If not you can Woo him?! Mr. Green

browniebaobao SG

huh? woo him? i think he's married..anyway he's too old for me la.. Laughing
and hor...the gel he prescribed to me cause my eye to swell leh..i will definitely remember him. Twisted Evil

Impulze SG

You're my hero E. Laughing
Read thru your forums these two weeks and couldn't reply to most of your topics cos all expired le hai.

Anyway, I'd be heading to GF's poly tmr, the opportunity to field test my new skills have presented itself!

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