Attraction: The fatality of the nice guys, aka the
final-level-three-super-combo-sure-kill-attack of the flirts.
Nice guys don't understand that attraction is what sparks those dry
sticks into a flaring bonfire, or rather, are unable to fully
appreciate the concept. Generally speaking, they play it down by
thinking (or hoping) "she might appreciate me for what I've done
for her" "by being there for her" etc, or procastinating telling
himself first and foremost to respect the woman's time to
recuperate from her wounds from the current break-up while over the
phone.
I'm sure you guys have read the "Twelve women you should
date".
My own girlfriend, is a hybrid of Ms Sweet, Ms Equality, Ms Loyal,
Ms No-Pressure, Ms Personality, Ms Low-Maintainence, Ms-Right for
You". Yep, I have peeps staring at her whenever I go, and I thank
God that I'm able to get her even though I'm a hopeless basket with
no previous experience other than a handful of rejections.
Yes, she is my first girlfriend after all this time. And do you
think I'm the stereotypical nice guy? Yep, I listened to phone
chats all the time, liked girls who made friends with me cos I was
there for them bla bla bla. F it. We all know the feeling. I tried
hard to jio girls, honestly, trying to play it cool and all.
But do you know something? The respite I gave my current GF from
her last breakup: 1 week. I listened in, and I made my moves, lousy
as hell the were - but they worked out. Yep 1 week! She haven't
even informed everyone not to mention her ex by then.
Did I say my moves were lousy? No way! They were SUPER lousy. But I
discovered one thing, it doesn't matter how I jio'd her over the
period of two weeks. It mattered she was interested in me, I had
already grasp her initial interest, and as long as I didn't screw
up by doing something as stupid and disrespectful as starting to
touch her all over the place it mattered little. Perhaps you can
say she's not demanding and she won't auction her status as GF to
the guy with the highest dating prowess... but then again how many
girls would? It didn't matter, she chose me, over guys who have
been chasing her for YEARS, and still are as I'm writing this
little article.
I'm not going to explain the HOW to attractions, F la 
there are enough guides here already, you
guys can figure it out and gain experience then lvl up. But
remember this, nice guys out there, don't be disheartened! You have
to spark off interest to sustain it and to pop the relationship
question! Once you know how to spark interest our advantage over
those unstable playboys kick in! Our innate ability to hold a
long-term relationship! We all know: Women would choose a guy able
to impress but is a hopeless player over a nice guy. But who
wouldn't choose a nice guy who had the moves and a charm that can
snipe women from over 20m away? Do not underestimate the power of
attractions, my fellow nice-guys-brethren. Thou gas stove shall
ne'er light if one does not provide a spark. A powerful spark at
that.
My point? Make the stage of attraction as big a thing as the sky.
Your willingness to love the girl through and through can come
later, first get her interested enough to inspect your goods!
Thick-skinnedness is an okay substitute for skill, but not perfect.
Over time hone your abilities to attract. Remember, there may be
only one 'flower' in each 'grass patch' for us. But there are many
such 'grass patches' with 'flowers' in it! Enough for all of us to
sharpen our instincts at stealing a woman's heart and finally
finding our Missus out there to finally revel in her embrace and
love forever.
