Guys. Do a self check with this list and find out if you're
falling in this category.
We may find that there'll be a handful of them in AA. 
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Seek approval from
women
Cater or pander to
women
Are predictable and
boring
Call women every day
or worse, many times a day (clingy, needy)
Try to buy their time
and attention with meals, gifts, etc.
Are nervous, insecure
or overly nice around women
Act like women's
friends instead of their lovers
Are available at the
drop of a hat
Tolerate without
protest rude behavior, cancelled dates, etc.
Go out of their way
to please women in the hope of getting laid
Let women control the
relationship
Are afraid that if
they do "something wrong," she'll leave
Grovel, beg, or are
desperate for sex
Obsess about and
over-analyze everything women say and do
Feel shameful or
guilty about their natural sexuality
Let women manipulate
them or treat them like "walking wallets"
Are lousy lovers